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Sunnyside1985
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I'm a woman who struggles with identity, self esteem, confidence, and relationships. I have un-healthy patterns and I'm trying to do something different. I've always struggled with mental health. I have a anxious attachment style, and I have some past traumas, and grief that I have never dealt with. I also struggle with addictions.

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Confused & Shocked
Women's Issues / by Sunnyside1985
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 May 23rd, 2024
...See more So I made friends with a police officer in my area who is head of the drug task force amongst other decorative positions. I've been somewhat friends with him for a year considering he monitors my housing complex weekly. Prior to him monitoring the complex I noticed he started popping up and random places where I would be. Long story short after exchanging phone numbers due to a issue I had he confided in me through a conversation that he likes me a lot and wants to " help me and my daughter", and "take care of me". This officer is married although he claims not happily. I'm confused and shocked. I never saw this coming and the crazy part is is prior to me knowing all of this I secretly was liking him as well. I don't know what to do going with a married man is completely against my morals and what I would ever want done to me. But at the same time my overthinking brain is worried if I don't accept his advances or at least explore things with him could he potentially make my life *** considering he has the law in some very important people on his side. Please do not judge me for even considering this I just want everybody's opinions please and thank you!
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Meth addiction
Addiction Support / by Sunnyside1985
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 May 23rd, 2024
...See more I have struggled off and on with meth for 8 years. I was even in some legal trouble I'm currently on probation and I only have one month left until I finish. But I struggle with meth because my neighbor in my apartment complex uses meth and always has it and knows how to get it deeply influences me. I don't like it because I lose weight and it changes my personality. I feel so much better without it but now that I'm in the throes of using it again it's really extra hard this time because of my neighbor I don't know what to do anybody have any suggestions or advice??
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