"When you are listening to somebody, completely attentively, then you are listening not only to the words, but also to the feeling of what is being conveyed, to the whole of it, not part of it".

Just an average fella from Ireland, willing to speak to whomever may be in need of another voice or a set of ears, if you have came across me and are struggling to find someone you feel you can open up with, send me a request and give it a try, I promise to do my best in being there for you & I hold no judgement in whatever may be said, I'm simply here for you...

I understand the feelings over overwhelming emotions, how rocky our roads can become, how pelagic the waters you try and tread carefully surround you..

You are not alone in these emotions, you should know that there will always be someone, somewhere who understands and cares about what you are going through..

I would like to be one of these people for you, I promise to keep what is said between us, 100% confidential.

No judgement will ever be made, as its better to try full heartedly to understand not everyone is the same and sometimes what others do, feel or say cannot be explained as not all of us have walked in eachothers shoes...

I would like to kindly ask those using this site incorrectly, that you should not be making obscene accounts nor inappropriate names with inappropriate intentions.

You will be blocked, especially on the male side, this is not the place for it, so kindly refrain from involving myself or other listeners in such foolery please.

Do ignore some of the following, as it has only humorous intentions behind it.

My intention with this site is not for the romance, but if it was, I'd be banking on your standards being a lot lower than mine 😉

I am happily involved in a romantic relationship with a beautiful gal(:

Some information about me, I love to write, fictional or fantasy type of stories are my passion, I enjoy the idea of creating worlds, characters, history and languages of my own.. I hope to someday put this passion into the means of creating my own feature length novels, then someday perhaps turn this into an animated movie.

Maybe if you have similar interests, this can be discussed and take your mind off any unfortunate states of mind you find yourself currently living in.

Apart from that, I'm rather unsure of what I could write here 🙄..

I am not a giant fella, but I am 6ft, minus the important inch that gets you there & I like to keep humble but it's probably worth mentioning now that I am the winner of a beauty contest in Monopoly while my Girlfriend Rojin rolled one step too far and went straight to Jail.

Probably only decent of me if I admit it now, but my height mainly comes from being two dogs in a human costume.

Not exactly someone with a lot of hobbies as I'm more of an introverted fella, I do, however, still ride along on a trolly when I'm out shopping, you'll see me drifting around corners to get to the jellie babies or fudge isle. I don't go out fairly often, clubs etc aren't my thing, I don't have much experience in partying, so no exciting party tricks here, although I do have some skill at conkers if you must know, not saying that I'm a dangerous type of guy but during me and my girlfriends first meeting I mysteriously carved our initials into a tree, it was the most romantic way of letting her know, I have a knife😋

I don't have any pets, even though I do absolutely adore dogs, but what I do have is a tamagotchi from 2003, and I've kept that little fecker alive for two decades.. either that or maybe digital pets need fed also, so really, I'm not actually sure about that one.

I'm aware that some folk on this site use it inappropriately as I mentioned above.. these few rotten eggs tend to ask rude things, ignore them, some have the audacity to ask for nudes being sent.

DO NOT SHARE CONTACT INFORMATION TO PEOPLE ON HERE!!

Makes no sense to me, go outside for a walk, strike up a conversation with a lovely seeming lady, take her on a date, buy her some food, and after this.. then try and get her naked like a real gentleman.

I can confidently say, I won't be asking for this nor will I be sending these things because while we're on the topic of nude photos I'd like to remind you of a little story I once heard; In 1912 a girl called Rose had a nude photo drawn in a sketch book by a random guy called Jack, she had met that no one had ever heard of. The drawing then gets locked in a safe, on a boat. The boat sinks. And her nude photo still ends up on TV 84 years later.

So no, I will not be sending nudes. No one is safe.

Reviews:

4 Stars - "An ordinarily seeming nice listener"

Anonymous 7 Cups Person.

5 Stars - "Sweet guy, such a gentleman."

Anonymous Tinder Woman.

5 Stars - "He made 50 Shades of Grey as tame as the Telletubies."

Anonymous Tinder Woman.

1 Star - "Stop asking me for a review, you weirdo."

Anonymous Tinder Woman.

5 Stars - "Such a sweet boy."

Matty's Mum.

(Please forgive the foolishness on some of the above^)

In some cases, all someone needs is a temporary smile to remind them that not all is lost...

Remember, sometimes to find the light, we must first touch the darkness...