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SupportiveSockMonkey |
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Listener Rating
4.5 star rating

Hello, I'm glad you've found me here on 7 Cups of Tea. I'm a very active listener and am happy to help anyone in any situation. I will always try my best to help you, or if you just want to chat, I'm here for that too. Life has thrown it's fair amount of problems at me, but this has helped me grow stronger as a person which will help me help you. If I'm online feel free to message me, but if I'm offline leave me a message and I'll get back to you when I can. Hope I can help! :)

Number of Ratings: 124
Number of Reviews: 36
Listens to Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Aug 20, 2015
Last Active in last 6 months
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 316
Cheers 42,024
People Helped 229
Chats 558
Group Support Chats 0
Listener Group Chats 0
Forum Posts 20
Forum Upvotes 22
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Feedback & Reviews
I loved the chat trust me i rlly did
They were really friendly and Easy to talk to. Kind person. C:
this person was a delight to talk to
Hi thanks for your time. Appreciate it
Responded really quickly and gave some great feedback to my issue. She seemed very caring and genuine about helping me (:
Very kind person
good to talk to
amazing so supportive
amazingly helpful
SupportiveSockMonkey was one of the best listeners ive had was honest throughout always kept me focused on my goal. Left my chat feeling a whole lot better ❤
A kind person and a good listener.
Very quick replies and helpful! Thank you so much!
Caring and understanding :)
A very sympathetic listener. Good to talk to.
Incredibly supportive listener. Very pleasant manner and great response time. Would definitely recommend this listener to anyone who needs a chat. Thanks again!
Great Listener, he became my Last Saving Grace when Most of the Other Listeners I Previously Talked to has Turned me Down Countless Times. I Appreciate Talking to him with his Caring and Compassionate Personality. In the End of the Discussion, I Felt Comforted with Great Delight and Never Felt such Happiness in my Life because of the Portrayal of his Empathy and Kind Heart. Thank You so much SupportiveSockMonkey, you were a Great Friend in Need.
Excellent listener! Really listens and offers support
Fantastic support and truly genuine
Kind and understanding. Glad I came across them.
The listener was very supportive and willing to listen.
really nice chat :)
Such a lovely person to talk to!
Very helpful and kind listener
She's amazing. I feel so much better about myself, and i hope she gets so much happiness:)
She really really helped me with my problem
Helped me realize what I needed to do to move on. Lovely person.
Helped quite a bunch, thanks~ ^.^
Thanks :)
She was great, and really helped. I felt 10000x better afterwards.
Great chat, helped loads :)
Well,Fern..your amazing..:)
This person is very comforting, amazing, and will help you through whatever! She's amazing! :D
A great listener, anyone would be lucky to just talk to them.
Very helpful.
Very very sweet and kind!
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Questions Answered
How would you describe depression?
April 17th, 2018 6:37pm
How do I face the stress of the school and living in general?
June 4th, 2018 8:46am
Should I give up on myself?
April 24th, 2018 5:30pm
How do you convince yourself to get out of bed in the morning?
June 4th, 2018 8:36am
How can I stop chemically self harming?
June 4th, 2018 8:19am
If I was gone would anyone notice?
April 17th, 2018 7:02pm
How many emotions are there and what are they?
April 17th, 2018 6:59pm
Is it normal to have numerous physical symptoms as a result of emotional stress?
April 24th, 2018 5:44pm
What do I do when my coworkers are harassing me?
May 20th, 2018 4:20pm
Have you ever cheated at work?
April 24th, 2018 5:01pm
How do I tell my boss I'm leaving? (nicely)?
May 20th, 2018 4:37pm
I am 28 years old, not yet sure on my career. How can I know what I want to do?
April 24th, 2018 6:00pm
Why did they pick me out of all people to bully?
April 24th, 2018 5:15pm
How come that it is so difficult to erradicate bullying?
February 20th, 2018 8:34pm
Is it normal for me to be silent when I get verbally abused?
April 24th, 2018 4:45pm
Why is it hard standing up for people that you see are getting bullied?
February 20th, 2018 8:33pm
Is it normal for you to be mentally scarred from bullying?
April 24th, 2018 5:26pm
Why is it so hard for me to stand up for myself?
April 24th, 2018 5:19pm
How can I make bullies understand what they're doing is bad?
April 24th, 2018 5:25pm
My mother constantly disapproves about everything I do and makes believable but exaggerated stories to tell my dad so he would get mad at me too. She is constantly bullying me at home. What can I do?
April 9th, 2018 6:04pm
What are the main symptoms of panic attacks?
May 19th, 2018 10:45am
What happens in the brain during a panic attack?
April 17th, 2018 6:53pm
Why do I always get panic attacks when i'm on the bus going to school?
April 17th, 2018 6:26pm
Why do panic attacks keep happening?
April 24th, 2018 5:18pm
Is it okay to avoid situations that make me anxious, or is that giving up to it?
May 19th, 2018 10:53am
How can I cope with anxiety and panic attacks when I have nobody to go to for help?
April 24th, 2018 4:50pm
Can anxiety and depression from a break up be a cause of weight loss?
April 17th, 2018 7:14pm
Does having anxiety mean your crazy/mental?
May 19th, 2018 10:51am
what are some good and healthy distractions from my anxiety when it gets really bad?
April 17th, 2018 6:44pm
How do you actually cope with having no genuine friends or relationships your life?
February 20th, 2018 8:35pm
How to handle anxious moments when we are outside home, in a busy place?
February 20th, 2018 8:43pm
At what point is it considered anxiety?
April 24th, 2018 5:05pm
What do I talk about with my girlfriend?
March 5th, 2016 7:47am
Why am I so nervous around my girlfriend?
June 29th, 2019 6:28pm
Why do I always think my girlfriend is cheating?
May 20th, 2018 4:33pm
I feel extremely sick whenever I leave my house, what can I do?
May 19th, 2018 10:43am
How can I overcome anxiety if I can't talk to a therapist or my own doctor?
May 19th, 2018 10:50am
can there be a long gap between panic attacks? i haven't had panic attacks for about two months and it just happened now
March 12th, 2018 7:56pm
What is the difference between sex and gender?
April 17th, 2018 7:08pm
Do you have to accept the labels you're given? How can you avoid them?
March 12th, 2018 7:55pm
Where can I find information about the different identities?
February 20th, 2018 8:36pm
Is it okay to be confused around your sexuality?
June 4th, 2018 8:22am
Does everyone secretly despise LGBTs although many openly claim to accept and love it, including LGBT members and allies? Are there really people who see LGBT as of equal worth as heterosexuals?
May 19th, 2018 10:39am
What constitutes self-harm?
April 24th, 2018 6:21pm
At what point is a counselor required to involuntarily commit someone to a hospital for self-harm? For example, can you tell them that you have self-harmed or that you have urges to self-harm, without the risk of being committed?
April 17th, 2018 6:30pm
Why is self harming so addictive?
February 20th, 2018 8:40pm
Is it normal for me to suddenly stop self-harming?
April 24th, 2018 6:06pm
will I self-harm forever?
February 20th, 2018 8:37pm
What do I say to people that ask about my scars without making them uncomfortable?
April 24th, 2018 5:52pm
Does using acid to burn yourself count as self-harm?
May 2nd, 2018 7:26pm
How do I explain scars when a young child asks about them?
May 20th, 2018 6:31pm
What should I wear to exercise with self harm scars?
April 24th, 2018 6:02pm
I scratch my arms all the time with scissors but i can never bring myself to actually cut myself, is that still considered self harm?
April 17th, 2018 7:13pm
What will happen if I tell my therapist I self harm?
June 4th, 2018 8:21am
What are some reasons a 4 yr old would self harm?
April 17th, 2018 6:24pm
I sleep for plenty of time but am exhausted in the morning, what can I do about that?
February 20th, 2018 8:38pm
How do I make sure I get enough sleep but also get everything else done I need to in my life?
April 24th, 2018 5:00pm
Why do I have the same bad dream each night?
April 17th, 2018 7:06pm
Why do I wake up sweating?
June 29th, 2019 6:31pm
Why do I wake up at 4am?
April 24th, 2018 5:58pm
How much sleep should I get daily?
May 20th, 2018 4:18pm
Do rebound relationships ever work?
May 20th, 2018 4:39pm
What is the best way to stop myself from calling my ex whenever I'm lonely?
June 4th, 2018 8:31am
How can I forget about the bad memories of my past?
April 18th, 2018 8:16pm
Why am I so afraid to open up?
April 24th, 2018 5:46pm
Should I go back to him/her?
May 19th, 2018 10:48am
Why can't I learn to open up to people?
May 19th, 2018 10:40am
Why do I always forgive him?
April 17th, 2018 6:27pm
What is considered "clingy" in a relationship?
March 12th, 2018 7:54pm
Why do I always say things I don't mean?
May 20th, 2018 4:32pm
Is venting a good way to move on? how long should it take to move on?
April 24th, 2018 5:38pm
How to forgive someone who cheated on you?
May 20th, 2018 4:42pm
Why is he ignoring me after breakup?
May 19th, 2018 10:44am
How do I know if my ex is thinking about me?
May 20th, 2018 4:41pm
How I can make someone who loves me move on?
June 4th, 2018 8:28am
My parents are getting divorced - what can I do?
April 24th, 2018 5:20pm
What's the best way to listen attentively to what your family has to say in all situations without becoming frustrated?
June 4th, 2018 8:16am
How can I get along with my mom better?
April 17th, 2018 6:30pm
Why am I not good enough for my mother?
April 24th, 2018 5:45pm
I'm cheating on my boyfriend or girlfriend. Am I a bad person?
April 17th, 2018 7:17pm
What age is too young to leave home?
May 2nd, 2018 7:16pm
Is it bad that I don't want to talk to a parent about my problems but I feel more comfortable talking to someone else?
April 24th, 2018 6:10pm
Should I go to the hospital for unhealthy eating habits?
April 18th, 2018 8:15pm
What’s more important? The number of calories you eat or the type of calories you eat?
April 7th, 2018 11:24am
Why do I keep having nightmares about a person from my past?
April 24th, 2018 5:29pm
Does domestic violence happen in gay/lesbian/bisexual or transgender relationships?
April 7th, 2018 11:38am
Can men experience domestic violence?
April 7th, 2018 11:34am
Can women be perpetrators of domestic violence?
April 7th, 2018 11:32am
New boyfriend takes out his stress on me. I'm tired of this. Should I leave?
April 7th, 2018 11:30am
Is forgiving another person just forgetting or letting go of anger?
April 7th, 2018 11:41am
What are the pros and cons of making friends online?
May 2nd, 2018 7:21pm
What should I do if I can't get into medical school?
May 20th, 2018 4:15pm
Does anyone feel bad or worry abou?t getting a low grade on a year
April 9th, 2018 5:59pm
What does Autism mean?
April 24th, 2018 5:55pm
What exactly does self-esteem mean?
April 7th, 2018 11:21am
I heard goal setting is a waste with low self esteem. Is there truth to this?
April 7th, 2018 11:19am