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Talktotom
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Number of ratings241 Number of reviews152 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceMar 19, 2018 Last activein last 6 months GenderMale PathStep 164 People helped710 Chats3,749 Group support chats3 Listener group chats5 Forum posts2
Bio
PLEASE READ BEFORE REQUESTING A CHAT Hello and welcome from the UK! Whether you are going through relationship issues, or something else and you want to offload or receive some guidance, please message me. I don't judge, I am genuinely here to help you.



In order to be more useful to you, I am better placed to assist members residing in Europe and the USA. If you live in other regions, there may be other listeners better placed and more familiar with other cultures that can assist you, as the listener community here on 7cups is truly global. Please don't be offended if I don't feel best placed to help you. I receive a large number of requests so please bear with me.



 
Feedback & Reviews
He was wonderful for the day I spoke to him. ✨ Genuinely was thankful he existed.
Good Listener …..
Great listener, asked great questions, helped me feel heard
Fantastic analytical skills, asks great question to better understand before providing feedback.
very funny and really helped me to see different perspectives!
The best listener I’ve come across here
Very attentive and empathetic, and insightful. Really helped out during a difficult time
Great listener, great inputs
My man - avid listener and curious enterprising individual. Well managed emotionally and always ready to hear out people
He's nice And understanding
Tom was a fantastic listener! Thanks for listening to me, Tom!
He is caring and tells me really positive things!
Thank you for listening
Tom is a great listener and very open. Most helpful.
Very helpful and good listener
Tom is very helpful, unbiased, and mature. I really appreciate the level of engagement he offered my situation as well. Definitely need more listeners like Tom, this guy really cares
Helpful and honest
The listener is very mature and wise. They ask clarifying questions and were able to carry forward the conversation with much ease. I felt so understood! Thank you so much, Tom!
Well minded, articulate and caring. Need more people like Tom.
I am so thankful and grateful for this caring and understanding person. I feel honored I could meet this amazing and helpful listener here, Tom is the best! 👍
Tom was super GREAT! Thanks... I will reach out again!
Excellent and wise listener.
I was feeling so low and emotional and just didn't know what to do but talking to Tom and hearing his thoughts have helped me calm down a bit and think about things from someone else's point of view . I would definitely talk to Tom again , he was brilliant
Talktom is a pleasure. He ask questions and is great at asking good ones that help him and you. He also was great and keeping the conversation enjoyable and made it a less stressful topic for me.
He’s very insightful and kind, and I have gained a lot of insight after our chat. Thank you very much!
Patient. Great listener! Great advice! One of the best I’ve spoken to!!
Such a lovely guy, super helpful.
good listener, very kind and straightforward and respectful
he is really intuitive and gets you really quickly!!
very helpful full of insights
Intelligent, funny and gave great insights from a different point of view, the best listener so far.
Took a lot of time to answer my issues. Warm, wise. Thank you very much.
Wonderful, kind person with great instinct. I've chatted with my share of listeners but Tom is by far the best!!!
Thanks for listening..
They seem to be genuinely concerned about my issues and overall a very kind person
Awsome listenner. Thank you for having helped me get through this. You rock man.
Attentive listener
Great and thoughtful guidance. I really appreciate it!
This guy is amazing, very helpful and very in tune to other people with just giving him the questions he’s asking for, he’s incredible! Looking forward to talking to him again. Very very helpful and funny! Happy to have clicked on his name!
Dude knows how to flip someone's frown upside. I came into this HEATED and by the end, I was laughing and joking around. He's also really funny.
Listened and had good insight and took the time to understand the situation fully
Very great person
You are a lovely person to talk to. You really helped me to put things into perspective. Appreciate it :)
Such a nice and friendly person! I enjoyed our conversation and he was interested indeed for what I was saying!
A really good listener who actually helps
Tom is one of the best listener. He is so amazing to talk to and i just dont have the words of how helpful he was. He has positive vibes and broad perspective in which can be very insightful to talk to. Certainly enjoyed talking to him.
very understanding and it was a great chat
Very good listener, supportive and genuine
Loved it. Tom's awesome, very attentive and active in the conversation. Compassionate, kind and funny just where some humour is desperately needed. Also the perfect person to vent about drama to, hah!🍵 Patient and invested. The best listener I've ever talked to.
very humorous and thorough. listens well and offers honest insight.
Amazing and very professional listener! Thank you Tom!
thoughtful responses, much appreciated
Active listener, and seems to always ask the right questions. Really helped me out. Thank you Tom!
One of the best listeners I found here. Actively listens, asks relevant questions, and most importantly didn't judge. Great chat!
nice listener good responses :)
Loved it! Awesome Chat
Present, attentive, kind
He’s a kind listener.
One of the best listeners I have spoken to on this site. Very understanding and supportive.
Loved it! Great lister and really help
Tom is very kind, understanding and nonjudgmental. He listens and gives very fair and honest input. Thank you for your time!
Very compassionate listener
What a gifted listener. With the ability to understand the complexity of life ; and the deep wisdom to help with the right words. Thank you.
Thanks a million for hearing me out and for believing in me. Cheerio!!
Very good listener, very patient and very helpful.
Absolutely amazing gave me a massive wake up call, didn’t judge me and listened to everything I said. Very honest and open with me will definitely keep in touch.
nice talking and thanks for listening
Very good listener who helped point out options to move forward. Non-judgmental and insightful.
Thanks Tom! I appreciate your help
Quick, perceptive and caring
Chill guy and has helped me with my problems
Talktotom was very helpful and made me feel at ease. Great listener and a great chat.
Very responsive and real compassionate! Thank you!
A wonderful listener. Wise and thoughtful. Thank you🙏
Very responsive and realistic in terms of giving advice. Thank you!
This guy is a truly gifted and caring listener. He helped me see my issues by being a mirror and a sounding post. I found a path and found my confidence by chatting with him. THANK YOU!
Easy going guy, great to talk to! Made me feel very comfortable from the first minute!! Would go to him again with any problem :)
Very attentive and thruthfull!!!
A great listener, with helpful questions. Made me feel a whole lot better. Thank you
Very helpful and attentive listener!
Tom and I just met but I already feel so comfortable talking to him! I don't open up to many people but he is so kind and easy to talk to. I hope we continue to talk for a long time ! So helpful
awesome listener
Great listener and active conversationalist. Superb help!
Extremely helpful.
Really good listner and i'm happy talking to him
Super nice guy.
He actually pays attention to what you are saying, I really appreciate it.
Helpful in many ways. Also funny and helped me lift my mood. Non-judgemental and motivating as well!
He really is a nice listener!
Absolutely amazing. There are no words for how supportive, understanding and patient this man is. He truly is one of a kind. He is a life saver.
Helpful enough, nice guy
Very friendly and easy to talk to. He answered my questions and we got to chatting.
A great listenner, I really enjoyed chatting with.
Amazing listener. Words can't describe how supportive and patience this listener is. Truly one of a kind and a credit to 7 cups.
Amazing listener. If you get the opportunity to talk to tom it will change your life.
One of a kind. Amazing, out of this world listener. The world needs more people like this.
Professional awesome listener
Excellent listener. Truly one of a kind. thank you so much for being a friend.
Thanks. Quick response time and thoughtful, appropriate answers
Repeat chat and more amazing than the first time. Thank you so much.
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