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Listener - Scholar 2

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5.0 star rating

I am a listener in her mid 50s born and raised in the US. I have been a single mother since 1996 and have worked in the adult industry since 2001 as a "cam model". Areas of personal experience are surviving narcissistic abuse via a parent suffering from "Narcissistic Personality Disorder" (NPD) as well as living with undiagnosed autism until my 50s. I also consider myself a go-to person during breakups because there are four types of people--happily married, happily single, unhappily married, and unhappily single--and I've been all four! 
My goal as a Listener is to continue to develop a deepening compassion for all as well as to assist others to the best of my ability in overcoming issues I have either overcome myself or am actively working to overcome. I am here to listen without judging but I'm currently not a therapist and will refer you to one if I feel it is what you need. Before I became a Listener on this site, I was (and still am) a Member. Feel free to contact me even if I'm not online and I will respond (usually within 24 hours). While I may not be able to connect with you live, we can essentially text each other via this website responding when we both have time. 
I got online in 1993 so can I be a good source of information regarding sites on the Internet that you may not be aware of. For those of you aware of the Myers-Briggs Personaltiy test, I am a ENFP but am an "ambivert" imo. http://www.myersbriggs.org/my-mbti-personality-type/mbti-basics/
I've been into healthy living since I was a teen and have been able to maintain my weight and health despite coming from a family of obesity. My children are grown and out on their own. 7Cups is my way of giving back as I approach my senior years volunteering to help others via my life experiences.

Number of Ratings: 59
Number of Reviews: 17
Listens to Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Aug 27, 2014
Last Active over 6 months ago
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 564
Cheers 43,899
People Helped 101
Chats 503
Group Support Chats 6
Listener Group Chats 4
Forum Posts 30
Forum Upvotes 33
Categories
Depression
Managing Emotions
Work Stress
Bullying
Eating Disorder
Panic Attacks
Anxiety
LGBTQ+ Issues
Parenting
Sleeping Well
Breakups
Alcohol/Drug Abuse
Family Stress
Chronic Pain
Financial Stress
Weight Management
Exercise Motivation
ADHD
Forgiveness
Grief
Obsessive Compulsive Disorder
Perinatal Mood Disorder
Social Anxiety
Getting Unstuck
Loneliness
PTSD
Disabilities
Relationship Stress
Women's Issues
Self-Esteem
Spirituality
General Mental Health
Growth Path Timeline
  • Exercise completed!
    Take a General Request
    Completed step number is 562, March 1st, 2019
  • Exercise completed!
    Practice Mindfulness
    Completed step number is 561, April 2nd, 2017
  • Exercise completed!
    Member Welcome Program
    Completed step number is 560, April 2nd, 2017
Feedback & Reviews
So helpful.
This user has been talkative, understanding and open with me about our similar issues. I've very much appreciated the insight of this awesome individual.
Great
Empathetic, thoughtful and kind. The listener genuinely tries to help by understanding the problem and suggesting resources.
Very friendly and open listener. Filled with compassion and down to earth. This listener has alot to offer whether its from experience or literature. Very highly recommended!
my listners support was good

Thank you for helping me get my thoughts organized! I'm so glad I found this website, it's exactly what I was needing and looking for.
Really great!!
I've had some of the best advice in a long time. I'm still surprised at how much better I feel after talking to her. I feel really lucky having come across her today!
An OUTSTANDING mature empathetic listener :-))!!! She is real & authentic:-))) (Some of the listeners on this site are fakes. This listener is TRULY the real thing. She is amazingly helpful .... Thank you:-))))))!!!!!!!!
A very honest lady and not at all judgemental! Thank you
She is reflective, supportive, kind, and has really good ideas!
Really lovely and understanding, I feel lucky I was able to find someone who understood my situation so well, and was able to shed new light on it. Thank you. : )
Omg she is the best !!
Perfect listener.
Great listener and straight to the point.
Wonderful, and very kind.
Badges & Awards
Recruit Jester of Smiles Clerk of Bear Hugs Anxiety Depression Eating Disorders Managing Emotions Panic Attacks Surviving Breakups Traumatic Experiences Listener Oath Alcohol & Drug Abuse Verified Listener Bullying Chronic Pain Family Stress Sleeping Well Love Bug Refresher Self-Care Self-Love College Guide Loneliness Guide Exercise Motivation ACT Therapy Affirmative Reflection Chat & Text Listening Ace Active Listening Startup Support Managing Finances Loyal Friend Tick Tock Fellow Friend Reconnection Hero I First Chat First Post Five Steps High 5 Hang 10 Open Door
Questions Answered
How can I stop someone from hurting me when they don't care about my feelings?
November 15th, 2014 9:10pm How do I not fall for someone that is straight?
December 2nd, 2014 6:08pm Who do I feel worthless and unlovable after being broken up with?
November 9th, 2014 2:06am How can I stop talking to my ex after a breakup?
November 11th, 2014 12:07am How do I stop myself from texting him?
November 17th, 2014 4:22pm I feel like my parents prefer my sibling over me. What can I do?
November 9th, 2014 2:08am My family is emotionally abusive. How can I fix them?
November 9th, 2014 2:16am How can I change how my family feels about me? I'm treated like the black sheep.
November 11th, 2014 12:02am How can I be happy without friends and family?
January 4th, 2017 7:44pm I feel like isolating myself, but deep inside I am very lonely. What do I do?
January 1st, 2017 8:35am