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Number of ratings53 Number of reviews37 Listens toTo Teens LanguagesEnglish, French Listener sinceAug 5, 2021 Last activein last week GenderMale PathStep 6 People helped83 Chats188 Group support chats2 Listener group chats16 Forum posts2
Bio

Hello and welcome to my bio!!

a bit about me? well my name is Jae and my pronouns are he/him


Feel free to ask any questions or vent to me :D

I also take casual chats if that’s what you prefer!


i help mostly with those suffering with sh (specifically sh urges and unsupportive peers) and lgbtq+ issues (specifically gender dysphoria and unsupportive peers). Those are the two things i have and still do struggle with the most being a trans guy myself.


I take chats on most things except sexual health or anything related to that and drug and alcohol addictions.


(You don’t have to leave a review or feedback but it really makes me smile reading it and also it’s good to know on what exactly i can improve on).


This is a safe place for everyone, so please don’t hesitate when reaching out for my help.


Thank you for reading my bio and im looking forward to chatting with you, have a nice day! 🪴


If you have a specific thing you want to talk about for a longer period of time or would like a long term friend who you can vent to please feel free to send me a quick message and we can schedule a time and will give me some time to research on certain subjects those i haven’t personally experience.


(let me know any triggers before the chat and i will definitely work around that to best support you).


My listening technique is to listen completely to what you say, i never interrupt i wait until i see you’re no longer typing to then start typing my own response, i read thoroughly to ensure i am fully aware of what is being said to avoid misunderstandings, then i will support you through words and reassure you i also tend to ask questions just to help the conversation flow and to try and focus on what i can help you with or to guide you into helping yourself- if you do not like my technique it’s completely fine to tell me or find a different listener that carries what you need in a listener.


Finally, i am going to say this straight on i know things may be difficult and you may be struggling but there is absolutely no need to be rude especially since this is me volunteering because i want to be there for you i don’t want abuse in return if there is something i say or do that you dislike you can let me know and we can work around that but if we can not or if you don’t let me know then if i cannot avoid that but you are welcome to request a different listener.



Feedback & Reviews
the best listener
Super nice and good listener
the best listener
the best listener who made my day💫
really helpful and sweet! he made me feel heard and kept the chat going. thank you! 💗🌷
Seemed kind and a cool person to talk to
They were amazing, they made me feel so much better and so understood.
great listener with really fast responses
very supportive and kind💜
definitely recommend, they were a good listener
They were helpful while i had them :)
It was amazing, really helpful and kind
he is a great listener and I recommend trying to talk to him
He was extremely understanding and helpful, and really made me feel heard and appreciated.
They are really nice and i like talking to them a lot
They were soo nice. They answered right away and were super helpful!!!!
Good listener. Let me speak and didn't interrupt. Got my issue off my chest. Highly recommended.
Cool chat it was really helpful
Wonderful! thanks!
Understanding and nice
Was so sweet, lovely Ollie. 1000/10 recommend greatly helped me through things!! (: keep it up, Mx.
Really helped!
So amazing I recommend
thank you, it helped
He's just awesome!!!!!!!
loved it it was an amazing chat
they were super cool im so glad i got this listener like bro you dont even know lol
Avid responsive listener
They's one of the most amazing listeners I have ever talked to, Keep up the great work Ollie!
really open, made me feel listened to! thank you :)
it was informative, thank hou
A very avid responsive listener
they gave me positive validation and helped me realise it’s okay to be myself.
Amazing listener
There so nice love them
Amazing listener, helped so much!!
Seemed nice and positive
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