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ThankYouForLettingMeTryingToHelp |
Listener - Scholar 10

Listener Rating
4.5 star rating
1) My response times are slow. Even when I am working on making them faster, if you talk with me please note there will be delays. Thank you for your patience and understanding.

2) I help myself when I help you.

3) This is my 7Cups Gmail e-mail address: (6/Feb/2010 07.09 Arg time: E-mail address deleted from my Profile page since I am not sure if it is OK to publish it here) - Feel free to drop me an e-mail anytime!!

4) Some issues with my Username:
(4.1) 08/Auguest/2019: On this day, I found out that "ThankYouForLettingMeTryingToHelp"  should be instead ThankYouForLettingMeTryToHelp. It seems first one is grammarly incorrect in English. I am sorry for my mistake. Thank you for pointing it out, @Nada and @DestroyingAngel .
(4.2) 18/October/2019: On this day, a 7Cups Member told me this: "Your name is still incorrect. ThankYouForLettingMeTryingToHelp. We all know that if you are "trying" you are not doing. A man should not try his best, a man should do his best. Your name subconsciously sends a message that you will "try" which implies failure is the most likely outcome. ThankYouForLettingMeHelp would be much more appropriate and will send a positive message that you will help."
(4.3) 14/November/2019: On this day, a 7Cups Member told me this: "Saying "trying to help" means you will do your best expecting nothing from those you encounter. The way your username is written seems perfect. To me it seems humble and that you know that not everyone can be helped."

5) Apart from being a Verified Listener and an Intern Graduate, my other roles on 7Cups are OR have been:
5.1) Safety Patrol (flagging of inappropiate Listener profiles).
5.2) Member of the DJ Team (leaded by @Caringbrit).
5.3) Community Leader: Room Supporter -> Healthy Living Support Community; 35 & Over Community Community; Positivity & Gratitude Community 
5.4) Forum Suporter.
5.5) Peer Supporter.

6) My 7Cups Diary:
https://www.7cups.com/forum/GeneralSupport_28/DiaryEntriesConnections_1597/Mydiary_209578/

7) Accepting Long Term Members!!

8) Some useful Links: (thank you @versatileStrings1578 for your help on the update ofthe list!!)

8.1) Inside 7Cups:
8.1.01) Listener Topic Library -----> Manuals on how to handle all types of chats, written by listeners
8.1.02) Listener Suggestion Box -----> Suggest ways to help improve the site, or how to address any problems you see (For any bugs or glitches, use this separate form)
8.1.03) Everything I need to know I learned from my bunny ------> If you ever get disheartened, refresh yourself with some leporine wisdom
8.1.04) Kane’s FAQ -----> Everything you could possibly ask for in a guide to this site
8.1.05) Farheen’s Guide -----> The best active listening guide there is. Fact.
8.1.06) Pink’s Distractions -----> All different types of self harm distraction websites and techniques
8.1.07) International Suicide Hotlines -----> Handy to have close by you when you listen
8.1.08) Listener Support Guides Master List

8.2) Outside 7Cups:
8.2.01) World Time Buddy ----> We are a global community, and we work in a lot of different time zones. Most things are organised in EST (New York’s time zone), and it can be useful to have some help working out what time it is for the people you are talking to, or when events are happening.
8.2.02) Copypastecharacter.com  -----> It helps to cheer up drab forum posts ✌
8.2.03) thankyouforlettingmetryingtohelp.youcanbook.me -----> To book an appointment with me. Please PM after booking the appointment, for confirmation.
[Q: Some users report that when accessing the link to my calendar, they do not get it: they get insted the whole site. Why?
A:What URL are they accessing? If it is embedded on your website there is an option to break out of the frame on mobile. You will want to turn that off. It is under styles and appearance footer/header or if you're on the new version, under styles and appearance.]
Number of Ratings: 48
Number of Reviews: 34
Listens to Over 18
Languages English, Spanish
Listener Since Jun 20, 2019
Last Active in last month
Gender Male
Progress Path Step 1,714
Cheers 49,465
People Helped 147
Chats 504
Group Support Chats 49
Listener Group Chats 28
Forum Posts 2,314
Forum Upvotes 2,050
Categories
Depression
Managing Emotions
Work Stress
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Panic Attacks
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Financial Stress
Weight Management
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ADHD
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Forgiveness
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Obsessive Compulsive Disorder
Perinatal Mood Disorder
Social Anxiety
Getting Unstuck
Loneliness
Student Life
PTSD
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Relationship Stress
Borderline (BPD)
Women's Issues
Self-Esteem
Spirituality
General Mental Health
Diabetes
Cancer
Recovery
Growth Path Timeline
  • Exercise completed!
    Introduction to Moving Forward with Self-Forgiveness , created by @SoulfullyAButterfly
    Completed step number is 1713, September 12th, 2021
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    Welcome to Your Progress Path
    Completed step number is 1712, September 12th, 2021
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    Take a General Request
    Completed step number is 1710, August 20th, 2020
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    Self Care Initiative
    Completed step number is 1709, August 10th, 2020
  • Exercise completed!
    Heart Messages
    Completed step number is 1708, April 17th, 2020
  • Exercise completed!
    Follow Up with Members
    Completed step number is 1707, April 17th, 2020
  • Exercise completed!
    Self Care Initiative
    Completed step number is 1705, March 28th, 2020
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    Self Care Initiative
    Completed step number is 1704, March 28th, 2020
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    Self Care Initiative
    Completed step number is 1703, March 28th, 2020
  • Exercise completed!
    Self Care Initiative
    Completed step number is 1702, March 25th, 2020

Feedback & Reviews
Jamás me esperé que una sola plática pusiera en perspectiva tantas cosas. Me regaló su ser de manera increíble y me ayudó a ver que necesito ser compasiva conmigo misma.
He is much more than a listener, he is the moral support who will never abandon you and support you in the most difficult moments... He is reliable, you can akways trust him and he is also extremely competent
His help definitely improved my life.you were so good at organizing my thoughts and ultimately actions.It really truly helped me a lot.Thank you.So much. :)
I liked it, helpful chat.
Leo is really helpful...he understands the problem and tries to give realistic solutions...his responses are delayed at times but it's he makes it up worthy of it
Kind listener who took the time to understand my situation and offer help. Thank you for your time and effort.
Cool and polite
Bueno oyente es atento y educado
Amazing, understanding listener.
Very good listener, very polite and careful and a good person!
I felt listened to and understood. I have ptsd and don’t trust easily but i have managed to open up here. I felt safe to tell some of my story and he is trying to help me move forward and accept. He’s a compassionate person and I’m looking forward to talk to him again. Thank you.
Amazing at helping! They really made me feel better
Very polite and respectful and friendly. Pays much attention to the context that is being communicated, very informed and attentive. He will become a true good dedicated listener. Very good start indeed!
great listener, tried to help me
Made me feel like I was worth something & helped me realize days do get better
Good active listening
Very kind and attentive.
Loved it creo que es un buen oyente
Great listener, very attentive
Una persona muy atenta y dedicada a pesar de que somos tantos los que tenemos problemas dedica su tiempo para ayudarnos
He asks the right questions and he's insightful, a great help!
it was all okay. thanks for the time.
Was helpful and a good listener
Really great listener!
A listenner, that listens and understands. Made me feel good about myself.
I think it’s really amazing that online live chats that are free, like 7cups exists. I’ve been in an out of therapy in my early teens until at one point i felt like i had enough therapy and quit. A couple of years forward I’m back to dealing with mental unwellness but I know therapy won’t cut it for me anymore and I need a different solution. and since I dont have close friends or close family that i can talk to i felt so lonely and decided to go on the internet. I spoke to Leo and it was amazing to talk and release everything to someone after I’ve bottled up everything for so long. He gave great feedback and helped me with a solution which was to go back to my family doctor and re-address my problem because the first time around that I went to my family doctor he recommended something, but it didnt work and he told me to come back for another solution but I never went back. The listener today recommended I go back and I think that’s a great solution cause I think it would help me to look for alternative ways to deal with my problems and to just talk to a professional for once would be good for me as well. And just talking and saying everything that I’m feeling and that’s on my mind and what I’m dealing with works so therapeutic as well, it’s great to release and share. So i feel a lot better now and I learned a great lesson today, that there is always help and that there are solutions.
good and patinet listener
well, i think it was really useful, i came expecting one thing but this helped me dig deeper into my own way of assessing the problem and find a possible solution :)
Excelent I like it so much
Really helpful awesome person
Very patient and supportive!
Really helped me feel a lot better. Thanks for the chat!
Really understanding and supporting and just talking to him makes you feel so much better. Thank you for the nice words.
Leo was fantastic. Highly recommended
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Questions Answered
I have a good life why am I not happy?
October 19th, 2019 12:12pm Why do I keep going back to my toxic relationship?
October 25th, 2019 8:38pm How can I feel happy about being single?
October 25th, 2019 11:17pm How do I stay motivated when I am not seeing results?
October 31st, 2019 11:21pm I've not been able to cry for a very long time, and I really need to. Is there a method to induce crying and letting it all out ?
October 20th, 2019 4:31am