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I AM CURRENTLY AWAY FROM CHATS
///1) My response times are slow. Even when I am working on making them faster, if you talk with me please note there will be delays. Thank you for your patience and understanding.
2) I help myself when I help you.
3) This is my 7Cups Gmail e-mail address:
(6/Feb/2010 07.09 Arg time: E-mail address deleted from my Profile page since I am not sure if it is OK to publish it here) - Feel free to drop me an e-mail anytime!!
4) Some issues with my Username:
(4.1) 08/Auguest/2019: On this day, I found out that "ThankYouForLettingMeTryingToHelp" should be instead ThankYouForLettingMeTryToHelp. It seems first one is grammarly incorrect in English. I am sorry for my mistake. Thank you for pointing it out, @Nada and @DestroyingAngel .
(4.2) 18/October/2019: On this day, a 7Cups Member told me this: "Your name is still incorrect. ThankYouForLettingMeTryingToHelp. We all know that if you are "trying" you are not doing. A man should not try his best, a man should do his best. Your name subconsciously sends a message that you will "try" which implies failure is the most likely outcome.
ThankYouForLettingMeHelp would be much more appropriate and will send a positive message that you will help."
(4.3) 14/November/2019: On this day, a 7Cups Member told me this: "Saying "trying to help" means you will do your best expecting nothing from those you encounter. The way your username is written seems perfect. To me it seems humble and that you know that not everyone can be helped."
5) Apart from being a
Verified Listener, an
Intern Graduate and a
Peer Supporter, these are my other roles on 7Cups:
5.1)
Safety Patrol (flagging of inappropiate Listener profiles).
5.2) Member of the
DJ Team (leaded by @Caringbrit).
5.3)
Community Leader: Room Supporter ->
Healthy Living Support Community;
35 & Over Community Community;
Positivity & Gratitude Community
5.4)
Forum Suporter.
6) My 7Cups Diary:
https://www.7cups.com/forum/GeneralSupport_28/DiaryEntriesConnections_1597/Mydiary_209578/
7) Accepting Long Term Members!!
8) Some useful Links:8.1) Inside 7Cups:
8.1.01)
7 Cups is actually Rivendell ------> As true as it is important to read
8.1.02)
Listener Topic Library -----> Manuals on how to handle all types of chats, written by listeners
8.1.03)
Listener Suggestion Box -----> Suggest ways to help improve the site, or how to address any problems you see (For any bugs or glitches, use
this separate form)
8.1.04)
Everything I need to know I learned from my bunny ------> If you ever get disheartened, refresh yourself with some leporine wisdom
8.1.05)
Kane’s FAQ -----> Everything you could possibly ask for in a guide to this site
8.1.06)
Farheen’s Guide -----> The best active listening guide there is. Fact.
8.1.07)
Pink’s Distractions -----> All different types of self harm distraction websites and techniques
8.1.08)
International Suicide Hotlines -----> Handy to have close by you when you listen
8.2) Outside 7Cups:
8.2.01)
World Time Buddy ----> We are a global community, and we work in a lot of different time zones. Most things are organised in EST (New York’s time zone), and it can be useful to have some help working out what time it is for the people you are talking to, or when events are happening.
8.2.02)
Copypastecharacter.com -----> It helps to cheer up drab forum posts ✌
8.2.03) thankyouforlettingmetryingtohelp.youcanbook.me -----> To book an appointment with me. Please PM after booking the appointment, for confirmation.[Q: Some users report that when accessing the link to my calendar, they do not get it: they get insted the whole site. Why?
A:What URL are they accessing? If it is embedded on your website there is an option to break out of the frame on mobile. You will want to turn that off. It is under styles and appearance footer/header or if you're on the new version, under styles and appearance.]