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TheDude83 |
Listener - Scholar

Listener Rating
5.0 star rating

I gladly listen to your problems and try to help as good as I can with an open ear, or eye in this case.
Don't hold anything back, emotions and feelings, all of them are a part of our life and should not be excluded or suppressed. I strongly believe that all feelings have their right to exist and are part of us as much as we are part of this world.
I went through a lot myself and had to find my way back alone until I realized that talking to someone, even if it's a stranger can make a really huge difference.

Number of Ratings: 80
Number of Reviews: 17
Listens to Over 18
Languages English, German
Listener Since Dec 12, 2014
Last Active over 6 months ago
Gender Male
Progress Path Step 784
Cheers 41,793
People Helped 148
Chats 826
Group Support Chats 0
Listener Group Chats 0
Forum Posts 0
Forum Upvotes 0
Categories
Depression
Work Stress
Eating Disorders
Anxiety
Breakups
Alcohol/Drug Use
ADHD
Forgiveness
Loneliness
Growth Path Timeline
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    Completed step number is 782, October 25th, 2017
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    Completed step number is 779, October 25th, 2017
Feedback & Reviews
He is good listener, care to take and help you
Talked me through some issues I was/am having. Really good advice and all round helpful guy.
Really nice listener ! There should be more like him :)
Very helpful. Eased up my mind a lot.
He's one of the best listeners I've connected to since joining! I felt like he really understood what I was going through, and he helped to improve my spirits quickly. He also helped me realize some things about my situation that I already knew but was too afraid to admit to myself.
thank you!
so helpful and never wish for any better listener
Very comfortable to talk to and polite !!
Great listener good advice a real cool dude
A great person to talk to
First person I talked to, very helpful
A wonderful man. Truly.
TheDude is really helpful and kind. I can highly recommend him.
I really really like TheDude83. His comments are very empathic and he tries to relate with me and my situation. It seems like he's really listening and trying to understand. He's an awesome listener.
Very nice and patient
he is a good listener. as much as he kept questioning me, wanted to get an idea on what i'm on about. it really showed the attention and his concern. i very much appreciate it, and this site. it just what i needed. i will still continue visiting and hopefully might become a good listener and help others too. thank you!
Very helpful :)
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Questions Answered
Why can't I make friends without constantly feeling like I just annoy them?
May 11th, 2015 8:48am Can anxiety and depression from a break up be a cause of weight loss?
March 26th, 2015 9:18am What's the best way to get over negative automatic thoughts?
December 26th, 2014 5:58pm What's the best way to stop worrying all the time?
January 14th, 2015 11:55am How can I stop always wanting what I can't have?
December 18th, 2014 5:10pm I'm concerned about someone in my life and his or her alcohol or drug use. How do I approach them about it?
December 22nd, 2014 1:00pm If I have a drinking problem, can I still use drugs, and vice versa?
December 19th, 2014 4:55pm