Skip to main content Skip to bottom nav
TheScholarofLife
737 118,891
L Guru 4
5 star rating
Rating
Number of ratings124 Number of reviews97 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceJun 1, 2024 Last activein last week GenderMale PathStep 1 People helped351 Chats3,002 Group support chats0 Listener group chats0 Forum posts0 Forum upvotes0
Bio

Enlightenment never comes from the outside.

Sigma; Intellectual; INFJ-A.

***Note: I do not address the topics of depression; loneliness; or getting unstuck.***

I am comfortable with and address the following topics only:

Adoption/Foster Care; Anxiety; Borderline (BPD); Domestic Violence; Eating Disorder; Exercise Motivation; Family Stress; Managing Emotions; Parenting; Personality Disorder; PTSD; Relationship Stress; Self-Harm; Sexual Health; Sleeping Well; Spirituality

***Note: I do not give an individual advice on what they *should* do; only explore with them what they *could* do, being supportive of that which they feel they *would* do.***

If I am listed as being away (orange); relay that which you are seeking discuss if you wish reply upon my return.

Feedback & Reviews
Absolutely wise and mature Speaks with poise and politeness
Very good listener and made me feel heard
Empathetic listening, unconditional positive regard.. intellectual....
very wonderful person to talk to, i highly recommend them. do not be afraid to talk about anything, as they are highly unbiased and will make you understand yourself a little bit easier
Great feedback and listener
Best listener here I've spoken with! Prompt responses, and validated my feelings. Gave me referral resources I didn't know about. Very professional! A++ Would recommend!
Really kind
Very thoughtful
Fantastic he makes sense of every problem i have.
Recommendable listener. Mature and gives new perspectives.
Thanks. You're kind.
Know life truly!
Very understandable and great to talk through things. I really appreciate them giving me the space to talk.
Very prompt responses; did not advise, only provided perceptions to explore solutions; did not judge; and validated my feelings. Very professional! May be the best listener here!
Helped me figure out what I needed to do in my relationship
He is patient and understanding, best listener here
he was very good at listening and helping
Amazing listener, he really has a sense of wisdom and insight.
Good listener and very advisable
Truly helpful and a really great listener :)
Very unique approach and a wonderful listener. ScholarofLife helped in different ways and gave me new perspectives that I never would have thought of. Thank you so much.
A thoughtful listener with a broad perspective.
Great guy! I felt heard and validated when venting to him
I felt a lot better after our chat. It’s nice to have someone listen and offer perspective.
Really supporting & non-judgmental
Very informative and patient. Thank you for your help :)
Easy to talk to.
Very supportive, knowledgeable and non judgmental.
Very helpful insight
Very kind, understanding, listen carefully and never judges
You can tell the care he puts into choosing the right words
He is a very grounding presence
Thank you for taking the time to talk me through my situation and confirm my perceptions. Your support has played a key role in helping me begin my journey of moving on.
Professional!
TheScholarofLife is really patient and is fully listening to what you’re saying.
listened to my issues and felt very judge free, they let me just vent to them and it helped me feel so much better
Great listener
logically helped me a lot
He is good listening
understanding, nonjudgmental and helpful
Very attentive, I appreciate him listening to me!
Attentive and is able to talk me through my issues
He was really good at saying wise words that really helped and he was non-judgemental but really engaging with me with my situation. I really appreciate your patience! 🤗
A really great listener. Let me vent, even read all the paragraphs I made (and there was many), and found the right words to say when I needed them. :)
Very helpful, kind, nice. ❤️
He listened to me very attentively and gave me proper guidance over my current difficult situation. Very helpful Guy. Thanks a lot.
Great listener
Thank you for being someone I could talk to for a minute.
Very understandable and friendly
What an amazing human being. Thank you!
good listener
offered his perspective, was patient with it and good guidance, thanks
Made me feel seen and heard even though i felt my issue was trivial…really gave me his full attention which i so appreciated, big thanks!!
One of the best listeners I’ve come across. Offers an honest perspective.
He asks the right questions and a very good listener
A very insightful and helpful Listener! Felt understood by him and now have the things I need at my disposal to set things right!
Really listened and challenged my thoughts
One of the best listeners that I could find. He was super kind, calm and interested in truly understanding my situation.
I’ve explored this app and encountered many listeners, but Scholar is truly exceptional. After multiple sessions, I can confidently say he stands out. I appreciate how he effectively uses the three status lights; green for free, orange for busy, and red for unavailable. He listens attentively, offers insightful comments, and remains fully engaged. His empathy, sense of humour, kindness, and maturity are remarkable, as he asks pertinent questions that empower you to uncover your own solutions, even when they seem elusive. I’ll always recommend him!
He’s a great listener
The best. Helped me so much and I feel so much better. Thank you for all your time and help. The most caring and comforting.
He is sorted in the mind and is a wonderful listener.
Excellent listener..Understands very well. Intelligent to speak with.
Patient and very understanding, managed to help me in more than one way and most of all just amazing.
Good listener and solid advice
Supportive very much
Wow wow wow!!! This guy listens and he is GOOD at it, he was able to help me through my issue all while adding some salt that was well needed to make me laugh and enjoy our convo!
thank you for your kind words and time
This listener was incredibly skilled at understanding the problem and my point of view, as well as guiding me towards understanding my own feelings and interpretations of things. Very kind, compassionate and patient. I never felt like I needed to cut the conversation short, or like he was splitting his focus. He felt really engaged in our conversation and offered valuable insight that really helped me! Highly recommended! Thank you so much for your time and your kindness!
Insightful and helpful
Very understanding
Good listening, good answering
He was kind, understanding, open-minded and thorough with his responses
such a good listener
Tries hard to understand a situation. No judgment.
Very considerate
Talking to him,helped me a lot! He is a GREAT listener🤩
I want to express my gratitude for your exceptional listening skills. Your patience and insightful contributions really amazed me. You consistently offered fresh perspectives I hadn't considered, demonstrating remarkable maturity, empathy, and kindness. You truly are one of the finest listeners on this app. Thank you for making our conversations so enriching!
Very kind and sincere listener. Helped me to see things in different way. The journey of my healing is going to be much easier. Thank you!
very nice and patient !
Supportive, mature, honest. Able to understand the emotions I was too scared to share. Highly recommended!
Best listener
Super kind and listens so well!! Gives you to space to vent
Incredibly supportive and knowledgeable. He was so patient and understanding, helping me process my feelings and understanding the root cause of the problem. Offered great guidance and insights. I truly felt heard. Thanks a lot. Because of you, my fear of BPD has been replaced with hope and courage. 🌷🎀
Very kind and inspirational
best talk, very reassuring!
Very insightful, super caring and kind, a great person to chat with!!
Very patient and helpful listener. He gave me some good insights. Thank you for helping me!
Made me feel heard and understood. One of the most thought and knowledgeable listeners I've encountered in all the years I've been on this app.
Very kind and helpful listener. He sat with me through a difficult conversation and provided very necessary insight. It was like having a good therapy session with someone who knows what they're doing. I would have paid very good money to talk to someone like this, and believe me I talked with so called professionals before. Kindness, empathy, warmth but a firm grasp on logic. I'm very, very grateful for the talk!
Listened to me patiently and asked me good questions and also helped me in seeing things from a different perspective.
A knowledgable and helpful guy who took the topic seriously. I appreciate it~
The best !!
It was truly eye opening to chat with him. He is very gentle, kind and took a lot of his time for me. He gave me his full attention which made me feel heard and understood. I loved chatting with him! Felt like a safe space. Thank you very much.
He gives the best advice, is straight to the point, and puts things into perspective. He was very helpful, uses logic, and is overall an amazing human being.
Very patient and helped me talk out my issue and get to some root causes and let me figure out a strategy to deal with my situation
Very helpful and friendly, caring, sharing and grateful very supportive 💪
Categories
Managing Emotions
Eating Disorders
Anxiety
Parenting
Self-Harm
Sleeping Well
Family Stress
Exercise Motivation
Domestic Violence
PTSD
Relationship Stress
Borderline (BPD)
Spirituality
Sexual Health
Adoption/Foster Care
Personality Disorder
Badges & Awards
24 total badges
Listening Ear Long Ears Magnet Warm Heart PenPal Jester of Smiles Clerk of Bear Hugs Piper of Dedication Ellen Love Bug Affirmative Listening Ace Loyal Friend Tick Tock Fellow Friend Steadfast Soul I Steadfast Soul II Steadfast Soul III Reconnection Hero I Reconnection Hero II First Chat Open Door Thankful Heart Gratitude Abound
Report an issue