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Breakup and Self blaming
Relationship Stress / by TipsyBee
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 June 3rd, 2022
...See more I a 25 F, i recently broke up with my bf of 4 years , we were in a very serious relationship . We wanted to get married but my parents didn't approve of him and his family as he wasn't much finanacially stable plus we have Different professions and paths in our life .I'm a very career oriented person so my parents though his family might not help me to go forward through my career .He is a very nice and understanding person we had a great rappo .But i had to choose my parents over him .I had just 2 options - go with him when I was unsure everything was just ifs and may bes or listen to my parents advise - take their advice as they have seen a lot world then me and they will always want me to be happy as I'm very very attached to them. So I choose my parents . I told him that and he started blaming me that I used him emotionally .I just played with his life .I gave him false hopes which is true but i had never ever committed him that i wuld leave my parents if required and come to you . Now I feel terrible , hopeless ,helpless and what not that I have ruined his life .May be he wnt move on or wnt ever trust any other girl in his life. I have destroyed his life . And these thoughts are killing me . How will he or me move on in our lives . Should I just leave this world so I dnt have to choose between my parents or him ? I'm so clueless.
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