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TomatoPasta
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PathStep 36 Compassion hearts620 Forum posts7 Forum upvotes6 Current upvotes6 Age GroupAdult Last activeOctober, 2022 Member sinceDecember 6, 2020
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Girlfriend emotionally cheated?
Relationship Stress / by TomatoPasta
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 October 22nd, 2021
...See more Last night I found out my girlfriend had still been close friends with someone she'd sexted and had a crush on. She didn't tell him straight away that we were together and when she did, things devolved and he ended whatever they had (she says just friendship but her guilt suggests stronger feelings than that). Since then her mental health had been deteriorating till yesterday when we talked about why she'd been disconnected from me and depressed. She'd been longing for a connection and hiding this from me for over a month.. I feel stupid for having been so supportive when she was essentially getting over someone else. I feel betrayed, lied to, and have lost most of my trust. She says she's committed to me now and will do anything to regain my trust in however long that takes. I just don't know how to move forward from here
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was i a good friend
Depression Support / by TomatoPasta
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 March 6th, 2021
...See more My friend was struggling. They were stressed, depressed, and anxious - not a good combo. I didn't realise how bad it was at the time or how to help. I did my best at the time to be supportive and remind them to take care of themselves. They started getting more distant and 'busy'. I thought they were losing interest in me and in anxious moment, I basically called them a bad friend. They were sorry and said they didn't deserve me. I tried to take it back but it was already said. Over the course of a week we went from talking every day to not at all. Since then I've tried apologising, calling, messaging to let them know I'm here and care for them so much, that I miss them and still want them in my life. But it's been 4 months and my last message wasn't even opened. I'm worried about them and fear our friendship is over. It hurts. I blame myself. And I feel so alone now. Can't stop thinking about it.
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