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Tomislav |
Listener - Explorer 10

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5.0 star rating

Hello fellow human being. You are afraid, hurt, sad, confused and lonely right now for reasons you are hopefully willing to share with me. Let me help you ease your pain in any way i can. Wipe your tears off and send me a message.


My name is Tom. In my life i experienced domestic violence, war, bullying, anxiety, depression, suicidalness, dark thoughts, low self worth, grief and much more. Human life is a rollercoaster. Take a seat next to me, fasten your seatbelt and hopefully i can show you that the ride isn't so bad.


I love water in every form since it calms me. I live by the sea and a river (i live by the rivaaaaah!! Reference missed? Oh shooks). I love reading, watching movies, i am a big audiophile. You can always see me with big headphones. Music is good for the soul. I love gaming and i used to write. Hopefully i will get back to it one day. I adore wine. I love cooking and i make mean pasta. Thou have been warned :)

Number of Ratings: 57
Number of Reviews: 18
Listens to Over 18
Languages English, Bosnian, Croatian, Serbian
Listener Since Aug 14, 2015
Last Active over 6 months ago
Gender Male
Progress Path Step 91
Cheers 26,683
People Helped 71
Chats 312
Group Support Chats 15
Listener Group Chats 115
Forum Posts 44
Forum Upvotes 45
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Feedback & Reviews
Very kind, smart listener. I am happy that I have talked to him.
Thanks a lot
Lovely chat really lifted my spirits up :) very sympathetic to my needs and spoke to me like an actual human and not a robot ... very impressed with this lovely listener :)
Genuinely interested
very helpful and polite! best listener I've had!
Great person to chat with I enjoyed my time and feel better they took time to hear my whole story
Thank you for your help will talk with person and see left me feeling better this chat
A kind , professional, thoughtful listener. Even though didn't have experience with all my problems was very understanding . Will definitely be back 😃
Was really nice to talk with him, a really kind listener and helpful. I would love to talk with him again another time, cause he helped me a lot :)
Such a lovely person up till early hours in the morning talking to me, very lovely man!
:)Thank you Tomislav!
Thank you!
Fantastic empathy, and understanding. This man will help you change you perspective. He deserves all the good reviews he can.
Great listener with a good sense of humor as well- I haven't laughed in days, but he had be laughing and smiling quite quickly!
A very helpful, empatic, patient listener. Easy to talk to. Changed my perspective toward some difficult problems.
Thanks for listening!
Listener is the first listener on the site I experienced as such. With a degree in psychology I might be a little biased, but it would seem as though most of the listeners I dealt with needed a lot more training before being able to add true value to a person in distress. VastSeaofThought was compassionate, engaging, and prompted me to talk about my issues in a way that was open, inviting, and safe. Definitely a listener worth his salt!
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