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Finding a hobby but don’t know what?
Hobby Zone / by TreaureSeekers3
Last post
 April 12th, 2021
...See more Hi, do you know what hobby I can take up as i haven't found a hobby and don't know how to get one. Any ideas? I enjoy anything like art and crafts but like reading too which I do as well as writing. Drawing too. With lockdown I'm trying to find something to do and don't know what right now. It's usually in the day Its most boring for me where trying to fill in gap but got no motivation to do anything. Do you know how to get motivation to from anything you do? I like walking to and do. I want something practical to do like said now. What would you think?
Sub Community Work Shop 18/11
Community Projects & Events / by TreaureSeekers3
Last post
 November 22nd, 2020
...See more Hi, I like to tell you what interests me and some things I enjoy doing in my time using self care and in my time of need. Theres are some of the things what arnt all about self care and what are some things I enjoy too I like to read good books from a minority of people who have there own interests of life and stories. Real life stories about them and happiness. I like chocolate which is another form of enjoyment and self care. Has to be milk chocolate. Favourite. Enjoy walking to places I don't need to visit it go to but go for the walk and help me clear my mind and have fresh air Talking to my friends and helping them out. Listening and taking my time to spend time with them. Talking to my mum and catching up with her in the day living in same house we do most things together. Go out or cook. Hearing from family and seeing how they are. Seeing my bf. Always makes me happy.
Don’t know how to feel right now :(
Depression Support / by TreaureSeekers3
Last post
 November 15th, 2020
...See more Hi, I don't know how to feel right now but feel like I'm slipping away or somethings not making sense and know why. im in a relationship and been together for a year and few months now. We get on, there's chemistry we both love each other etc. Though it feels when we want to spend time together it always get interrupted. It's been like this for ages and I've done nothing but tell him we need more time together where your living which isn't too far from me but still good half hour you be better living back in town. He knows this and understands and he said he's gonna do it but I'm not saying this on my own benefit to get more time with him but just questions why is this still going on and he's not juggling or moving his diary around and changing his plans what's not so important to spending more time with me like a day or two more in the week or moving his commitments around. It's strange how he has time for everything else like his riding decorating his mums house where he lives at moment looking after kids etc but I always fall short. What can I do to have more time with him? I know new year is round corner and things won't change yet but not sure what can do from here? And I haven't heard from him cuz his excuse we be I'm busy when he could made time to talk to me. Like avoiding me :( feel sad. We get on really well and been talking about potential future having our place but it don't look like it's gonna happen. Can someone give me advice or help if you know what to do? I'm stuck. Thanks
Feeling unsure about future/present with anxiety and depression
Depression Support / by TreaureSeekers3
Last post
 September 28th, 2020
...See more Hi, I don't know how to feel right now. I feel unstuck in where I'm at in life that I can't say why I feel a certain way which feels overwhelming and can't put into words what it is what is making me feel like that. I know what feelings I'm experiencing but I can't put it down to anything but the feelings I'm having for the future and present. I got a lot of things on mind I always think about. I have a good decent enough life I'm fine in all that but the way I want my life to go I should be there and as I got bf and planning future and him thinking about his and me. Also his kids makes me wonder where we gonna go. We love each other but the problems got now is always there and not making difference until he does. Nothing wrong with our relationship just he wants to move out I'm considering it and he's looking for job. Future plans we got but I'm thinking about myself and where I see myself. I'm not really happy in myself as keep thinking by now I should have what I want. I don't know if the age is taking I'm 28 but I'm not thinking major serious commintments yet. Is it maybe the age recently turned 28 I'm feeling different way coming up to 30? I just wanna be happy I'm not. I'm living with my mum it's just us. It's ok but thinking need place, I got a job I'm ok in going alright but thinking about how long staying now outlining what I want to go right where on the ladder I want to move further up to do a higher working role, I'm thinking about needing to look my best and maintain that ad that not to go away as need to keep it up and buy things for me and working out taking up hobbies etc. Don't have many friends only couple but I feel like most in this world that I am lonely and I don't have friends or any hobbies I just work see bf and look after myself if I can. I don't have social life. I want a better life. I want the next step. I'm just looking for advice on this how to move forward cuz I'm not happy until something changes. I've discussed this with bf already and we both know what needs to but things aren't moving forward. Maybe I'm expecting to much. Sorry for the long story.
Feel lost with worry
Depression Support / by TreaureSeekers3
Last post
 May 8th, 2020
...See more Hi I don't know where to start or what help I need but I know I need help im feeling and what is going on. My day has not been a good day cuz argued with my mum and that's why the thoughts and worries I have been having the last few days has topped it off. I don't know what will help me right now or what I need but please I don't want the advice that says I understand know how your feeling. Take a day at a time. I get but I need someone to give me an idea or thought what might help where I won't be tomorrow or next in this loop of emotions again. It feels like there's worries and tension. I don't know where it's come from cuz not been feeling like this for a walk but something has changed. I've have had motivation and not which is strange. Not had the motivation to enjoy or do anything what I know I can. I feel stuck or unstuck whatever that means but I just need help to whoever is reading this and to not give me the same advice what I said above. I need different perspective or idea on my situation. My bf is part of it I don't know if more cuz he's been making me think and over doing it. Saying about buying place together but I think that's more his idea then mine and I'm not sure he knows what it's doing to people around him. Maybe take more considerations towards others but right now I can't talk to anyone or talk about lockdown cuz it's getting to me and that's all o keep hearing. Social distancing going for walks. Can't go out. I know we're on in the same boat but what does not change is you in the lockdown and your only gonna think what's best for you right now and family so what can you do to get through I think depends on people situation but what I want is to know what I can do to not feel lost or over thinking anything cuz the days have been the same. I'm not finding alot I can do and when I do I don't have the motivation. I go for walks but haven't today or to shop but that's it. I'm losing myself and connections around me. My friend stopped talking to me today. What's going on. Please help anyone please
Loneliness and Isolation got worse in this convid and relationship and anxiety not good.
Depression Support / by TreaureSeekers3
Last post
 April 12th, 2020
...See more I'm female who has anxiety and depression. On my own due to the virus. Things were ok till the virus came. I'm trying to go out walk and shop but can't do alot if they stopped everything. My bf isn't understanding. We fell out and I felt I was feeling blamed for feeling certain way and I'm not talking to him. I haven't spoken to him today cuz it's best for me not to engage. He don't seem to understand if I just want more from him. It's different when he's sad I come running. Not any more. I did something yesterday messaging someone on Facebook a girl I doubt thought maybe relationship was his ex hi s kids mum and found out I messaged her. Don Don't know it was her or not. I feel bad c uz he got angry. I can meet up which I do and he does but feel this virus distorying us and meet up withim. I donta wanna leave him but I don't wanna get nothing. U don't wanna either ignite but only choice I got cuz as before I go cold and will not show emotion when he's hurt me so is that best thing. I still love him he does but it's timing again what doesn't seem to be on our side. Things were ok before it's meeting up. His parents said don't want anyone around house cuz of virus and that's fair but they don't really seem down to earth as I hoped. Getting my anxiety when it keeps coming back to that. I don't feel like they think I'm good enough for him it seems. Maybe I'm wrong. If they want there son back ok. Also my anxiety has been bad and been not resting and getting up early in day and have phobias to Am I in the wrong am I expecting too much? Plus my friends haven't been here for me much when I've been on my own and needed someone to talk to. I've reached out to an old friend who isa guy got feelings but had to talk to someone who knows me and will listen and he's only one who does. No one else seems to help. I spoke to support lines on phone and ones ones helping me but its still hard during day as this virus whats affected us. please can someone help. Advice I'm lost and don't know what to do or no one does. Sorry for long message I need help with this
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