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Tri2BHappy
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Person that studied as a Scientist in NY that enjoys science fiction, science fact, cooking and a good cocktail!


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Pen Pals / by Tri2BHappy
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 May 23rd, 2025
...See more enigma72 [https://www.7cups.com/@enigma72]  Thought I would try out the penpal part- reply back if you're interested in chatting.
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Wife Always on Social Media means I'm not worth talking to
Self-Esteem / by Tri2BHappy
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 September 10th, 2024
...See more So my wife found social media sites about 1.5 years ago- until then it wasn't a thing.  I still hate it and have nothing to do with those sites.  After a little while on the sites, my wife just spends every waking moment on social media- liking and chatting with hundreds of people a day.  Yet I can't get her attention ever.  I've had functional depression for a long time, but now it's gone to MDD and every time she is on her phone I feel like she must be doing it because I'm boring, stupid, and not worth any of her time.  She says that's not true- but actions are bigger than words and she never hears me, constantly ignores me for the phone and every day I feel like an even bigger loser. With MDD I am not motivated to do anything- but I keep trying to make sense of all of this.  I do all the cooking and cleaning to try to make her notice me- but nothing.  I'm lonely and boring- and I'm trying to figure out how to fix this. Every time I try to bring up this in a conversation it ends in a heated conversation- at least on her side.  I'm so defeated.. Any and all suggestions would be great.
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