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VastOceanAndTheCat
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PathStep 15 Compassion hearts96 Forum posts13 Forum upvotes31 Current upvotes31 Age GroupAdult Last activeDecember, 2025 Member sinceNovember 12, 2024
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Just a person with twisted feelings.


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Looking for someone who's a good listener!
General Support / by VastOceanAndTheCat
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December 31st, 2025
...See more Hello, I am pretty much open minded but sometimes I just want to talk to someone about everything going around the world and my overwhelming emotions. I can do the same for the other person! If you are interested, let me know.
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I had panic attack and crash down due to constant reminding of my unemployment
Work & Career / by VastOceanAndTheCat
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November 14th, 2025
...See more Hi, I am a F and 20. I am at college, I enrolled this year's May, I have been unemployed throughout the whole time living with my mom. She supports my expenses and all, recently it's hitting me when she keeps saying I should work and when I start taking it seriously, she says I should focus more on education, I can work after graduation. Okay, it's her problem but the thing is I actually want to work to support my expenses somewhat but I feel so incompetent, I could never land on anything nor I have any connection to do a job suitable for me. I feel like it would have been a piece of cake for most of my peers unlike me who sucks at professional conversations which is such a turn down I believe except for professional demure, I am very awkward, I am also not that skilled in anything except for IT, I don't have any useful hobbies, my mom definitely won't allow me to do certain work which are available. I am looking for direction...
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Am I doing it wrong?
7 Cups Online Therapy / by VastOceanAndTheCat
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November 27th, 2025
...See more I know I have issues with my mental health but I am not seeking professional help yet because firstly I am not ready to open up professionally! I can open up to strangers online or people offline generally but that part seems off to me somehow because they will take it seriously whatever I share? Second is there's no good mental health professionals around and it's very much of a less discussed matter so I couldn't bother much trying to cope anyhow. I did thought of checking out online therapy but I definitely think physically therapy would be more effective.
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