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Sleepless nights - Started a new relationship, but apparently I was not over my previous break-up
Relationship Stress / by Vnuitu
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 February 14th, 2018
...See more Hmmm... how do I keep this post a bit short. I'm really down because of my break-up of this week. I was with a realy realy nice girl, but at the beginning of the relationship apparantly my previous break-up messed things up. I was doubting about if the new relationship was "good enough" because I compared it too much with the previous one. Therefore I didn't jump into it completely and was holding back too much. Of course, this caused the girl to feel uncertain, because I didn't show enough that I liked her. A few weeks ago she told me that this was a problem for her and it hurts her and that she wants to break up. After that she went on vacation and the situation was not clear. A few days ago she told me she wanted to break-up completely. Now is the moment that I realize how much I liked and loved her, but didn't tell her because of this stupid previous relationship. During the period I was with the "new" girl my doubts dissapeared slowly day by day, but it obviously it happened too late.... So, now I'm really blame myself for being so stupid. I had a realy nice, lovely and beautiful girl with me, but I didn't realize it enough. I told her about my feelings and this story, but she says it's too late.... And now... sleepless nights...
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