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The worst thing in the world can happen, but the next day the sun will come up. And you will eat your toast. And you will drink your tea ☕
Number of ratings36 Number of reviews30 Listens toTeens & Over 18 LanguagesEnglish, American Sign Language, Portuguese Listener sinceSep 6, 2021 Last activein last week GenderNon-Binary PathStep 10,036 People helped104 Chats778 Group support chats378 Listener group chats135 Forum posts1,318 Forum upvotes2,013
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Everything is going to be okay 🌼🌿

I'm Light (or Elliot) and I’m glad you’re here💚 He/him, EST

I'm especially versed in LGBTQ+ and neurodivergent issues, but I'm happy to support you with anything you need to chat about.

Please note that unless I pull you out of the queue, I'm probably only available for offline chats 🌻

Where talk exists, so does hope 💛

Ainda não falo br português fluentemente, mas adoraria apoiá-lo da melhor maneira que posso. 💚





Recent forum posts
Teen Only Zone Forum- Join us!
Community Projects & Events / by WarmLightXO
Last post
 September 10th, 2022
...See more Hi all! <3 The Teen Only Zone needs your help! Are you a supportive teen or ATL who can’t pick just one area to specialize in? Do you love forum games and events? Are you passionate about supporting other teens? Would you like to join a team that is growing and expanding and wants your ideas? Join us! We’re specifically looking for peers to assist us in building our forum community :o What are the requirements for a member? * 50+ forum upvotes * 50+ forum posts * Taken Member oath [http://www.7cups.com/forum/Welcome_27/7CupsofTeaMissionCoreValues_207/MemberOathAllEncouragedtoParticipate_7447/1/] What are the requirements for a listener? * Verified Listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/VerifiedListenersProject_1839/IWanttobeaVerifiedListener_46935/1/] * 50+ forum upvotes * 50+ forum posts * Taken the Listener Community Guide Join us! Apply Here! [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSf0X4rwm7KWaKkWtlXm0KKZVgUvHIFYpYXYUTbMkcP-4euyUA/viewform] Or, feel free to poke with any questions :p
Learning Life from StarlaSky
Community Projects & Events / by WarmLightXO
Last post
 August 7th, 2022
...See more Welcome to another interview! A very special welcome to both @StarlaSky our interviewee and @Fristo our interviewer 💕 ------------------------- Q1) What makes your life meaningful, in general, Starla? Starla: Memories and curiosity make my life meaningful. No matter where I am and what I do, my main goal is to live the moment and make countless memories because these memories are what I can count on whenever I think about what I have done so far in my life, how many people I have met and how many relationships I was able to make. For every happy and sad moment, we have memories attached and I feel they make my life meaningful, they add colours to it. Curiosity on the other hand makes me seek thrill in life, it makes me eager to try out new things and explore more, adding more memories and colour to my life. Q2) What are some of your life lessons from your life so far? Starla: Every hard phase or difficult concern has taught me a lesson and I always took it in a way that it’s just life teaching me lessons to survive in this world but just through the harder way. While I can’t list all my lessons, I can share a few of them that have taught me greater meanings. Patience, I have learnt that with patience you can achieve anything, no matter how much you fail, you need patience, for yourself and for your achievements, rushing won’t get us anywhere and this applies to everything in life! Another one is to savour my life, while we all start to chase life and the competition in nowadays world, we forget to stop and catch a breath because we are so into matching our pace with life, while it’s good to chase after your goals and the competition, it is bad for not to give yourself a break and missing out on savouring million moments, because this concludes that one is surviving life but not actually living it. Get to know yourself, explore yourself, and your interests and just take a break and breathe in the moment. Q3) What character qualities do you most identify yourself with? Starla: I’m playful because I personally love ruining serious situations with laughter, hehe. I’m kind, I’m forgiving, and I love to see the good because it motivates me to be a good person and believe in goodness. And I love adventurous things, so I’m a thrill seeker too, haha. Most importantly, I’m non-judgemental because I see no point in judging, everyone has their own lives and one shall be able to live it to their heart’s content and not based on how one would think. Q4) How can one make the world a better place? Starla: Trust me, this is very very simple! You just have to follow three steps! Accept, forgive and move on. Accept whatever it is that has been done, forgive yourself or them and just move on, as I said life never stops and it is very unexpected, we never know what might happen tomorrow and holding baggage forever sounds difficult to carry, so why not just drop the unnecessary baggage and let ourselves be free? We just have to follow those, and apply them to ourselves or in our lives. Because I believe, when one can accept their own mistakes or forgive the mistakes of others, they are automatically non-judging! Q5) How does one live a balanced and stable life? Starla: I won’t give you a balanced diet flowchart, hehe. Just acknowledge yourself, spend time, listen to your thoughts, negative or positive whatever it is, don’t push them aside, acknowledge them and then question yourself “What is it that makes me happy?” “What is it that I do to make myself feel better?” “Why do I feel this way?” “What may be the best way to overcome these?” Once you know yourself and acknowledge your thoughts, feelings and problems, you can live a balanced and stable life, where you know what is bothering you, how you are handling it and what is it that you are doing to keep yourself happy and motivated. Q6) Which 7cups learning would you apply to all other areas of your life? Starla: Listening. I will apply this everywhere in my life, I’d like to listen to myself, my friends, my family, and anyone who wants me to just hear them out. Listening holds such great power, Any misunderstanding or conflict can be solved by simply listening to what the other person has to say! Q7) What do you hope to not change about yourself? Starla: To never lose my inner child and curiosity, because that is where I have all my lighthearted and fun moments. We also have an audience round for this interview! Those who’d like to ask Starla any questions about their 7cups journey or about them (without being too personal), feel free to post a question in reply to this thread and our interviewee would answer if they’d like to and would feel comfortable to answer! ------------------------- Special thanks to everyone stepping into the role of an interviewer today in the replies! If you’re interested in joining our team, check us out here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/LivingwithLeaders_2290/JointheLivingwithLeadersTeam_282669/]. Join our taglist here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/LivingwithLeaders_2290/LivingwithLeadersAutomatedTaglist_275290/] Learn more about this series here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/LivingwithLeaders_2290/LivingwithLeadersPresentsAnInterviewSeriestoGettoKnowour7cupsLeaders_260516/] @Aileen1114117 @BlueRiver5968 @Dallady @exuberantBlackberry9105 @HealingTalk @MyNameIsNicole @SkylarListens @ThoughtfulBlossom @WarmLightXO @Zarram77
Join the Living with Leaders Team!
Community Projects & Events / by WarmLightXO
Last post
 August 1st, 2022
...See more Living with Leaders. You may not know us by name, but you've probably seen us around the community. Weekly interviews with community leaders. [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/LivingwithLeaders_2290/1/] Self-care series. [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AddictionSupport_131/PreventingandOvercoming7cupsAddiction_2339/] Peer Appreciation Program. [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PositivityGratitude_170/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationProgram_262230/] Daily Appreciation Check-Ins. [https://www.7cups.com/forum/PositivityGratitude_170/PeerAppreciationProgram_2310/IntroducingAppreciationCheckIns_278621/] That's all us! Living with Leaders (or LWL) is our 7Cups program dedicated to learning from and growing with each other. We've been around for about a year, but we're expanding and connecting our programs more and more :) Please consider joining our team! We have multiple roles and responsibilities you may be interested in. * Interviewer! As an interviewer, you will reach out to leaders and peers around the community and ask them thought-provoking questions. These will be posted on our forums! Some questions will be provided, and others you'll be creative with. Your quota will be specific to you and you will regularly meet with team leaders to evaluate your own team performance, discuss your needs in the role, and give feedback on the performance of team leaders. Application Here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdRhtVMmNbSzJO51eCD07pE4U419AINkP5GGk3FjFKyZTb-aw/viewform] * Recruiter! As a recruiter, you will reach out to leaders and peers in the community and ask them whether they're willing to be interviewed. All questions will be provided and you will not be writing them. Your quota will be 15 DMs a month and you will log these on our dash. You will regularly meet with team leaders to give feedback on their performance. Application Here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdRhtVMmNbSzJO51eCD07pE4U419AINkP5GGk3FjFKyZTb-aw/viewform] * Graphic Designer! As a graphic designer, you will sort through our interviews to find thought-provoking or kind quotes and create graphics to revive them. These will be posted on our forums. Your quota will be flexible and specific to you. You will regularly meet with team leaders to give feedback on their performance. Application Here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdRhtVMmNbSzJO51eCD07pE4U419AINkP5GGk3FjFKyZTb-aw/viewform] * Appreciation Advisor! As an appreciation advisor, you will regularly offer feedback, ideas, and advice to the team leaders. Your quota will be 1 check-in each month, where you will discuss your needs in the role, give feedback on the performance of team leaders, and brainstorm for the maintenance and growth of the program. Application Here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1i-0LhBH_9OkP-hMRodUyW3Sxy0vD3GFHJXGsA_Hyb1Y/edit] * Appreciation Team Member! As an appreciation team member, you will create forum posts using information others have submitted. These posts are a great way to showcase your creativity and spread appreciation in our community. Your quota will be 1 post a week and you will log these on our dash. You will regularly check in with team leaders to evaluate your own team performance, discuss your needs in the role, and give feedback on the performance of team leaders. Application Here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1--1b1ziNMHsXAHzo3LNTqmDKglogwlOR8uNb3FvkQwA/edit] * Check-In Host! As an appreciation check-in host, you will host one check-in a week. You may also optionally decide to brainstorm and even write new scripts for our team. Your quota will be one 30-minute check-in a week and you will log these on our dash. You will regularly check in with team leaders to evaluate your own team performance, discuss your needs in the role, and give feedback on the performance of team leaders. Application Here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1--1b1ziNMHsXAHzo3LNTqmDKglogwlOR8uNb3FvkQwA/edit] What you can expect: * A communicative, accountable team that thrives on communal feedback. * Opportunities to collaborate with other team members and subcommunities. * Opportunities to stretch your creativity and expand our program. Our team's star leaders: * @Fristo: Appreciation Advocate and Advisor Leads appreciation chatroom events and oversees the dash. * @Sunisshiningandsoareyou: Omnipresent Sun Happy to lend a hand everywhere required ✨ * @GloriaD: Smile Spreader Oversees peer appreciation gallery, team member status, and birthday events. * @Clarisse29: Head of Self-Care Conducts interviews for A Talk on Self Care Series. * @WarmLightXO: Warm Light :p Manages appreciation check-ins and program growth. We hope you’ll consider joining us as we share positivity, wisdom, and creativity in our communities, let’s continue nurturing an environment of growth together <3
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Excellent listener! Gentle and understanding. Would recommend a hundred times over. I was really pleased with our chat and it helped me understand myself a good bit better. Thank you so much!
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Thank you, XO. You really helped me out when I was in a tough place and ended up giving me light with a newly found smile on my face.
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they really helped me, they gave good advice and really seemed like they cared and wanted to help in whatever way they could
Professional and well equipped listener, they make you feel supported and valid.
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He's very easy to talk to and made me feel comfortable quickly. His questions are well-thought out and his experience is made obvious by their conduct
Great listener makes u feel comfortable and easy to share with
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She was such an awesome listener and really sweet
Very calm and understanding, you're very responsive and lovely to talk to
Helped me a lot, talking with this person really makes you calm.
very understanding, helped brainstorm some solutions
the most supportive, relatable, and sweet human. provides an endless amount of love and advice. eternally grateful 🤍
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Thank you so much
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was great at listening and supporting without being overbearing
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