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XiTalksSoft |
Listener - Expert 11

Listener Rating
5.0 star rating
Hi! I'm Xi and I've been through a lot, worked through a lot, and am still working through a lot. I'm 26, trans, pansexual, and grey-asexual giving me lots of experience with LGBTQ+ issues. I have personal experience with depression, self-harm, PTSD, anxiety, eating disorders, and have experienced sexual assault first-hand. I'm also ok with chatting about things involving BDSM, D/s relationships, and fetishes. I hope I can be someone to confide in who can help you in any way I can! If I'm not online feel free to leave me a message!

**Currently I am only taking short-term chats and cannot offer long term chats**
Number of Ratings: 68
Number of Reviews: 18
Listens to Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Nov 5, 2015
Last Active over 6 months ago
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 183
Cheers 64,419
People Helped 117
Chats 399
Group Support Chats 422
Listener Group Chats 685
Forum Posts 58
Forum Upvotes 100
Categories
Depression
Eating Disorder
LGBTQ+ Issues
Self-Harm
PTSD
Growth Path Timeline
  • Exercise completed!
    Simple Breathing Exercise
    Completed step number is 182, May 19th, 2019
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    Take a General Request
    Completed step number is 181, May 19th, 2019
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    Small, Simple Step
    Completed step number is 178, November 27th, 2017
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    Chat Session Reflection
    Completed step number is 175, June 29th, 2017
  • Exercise completed!
    Practice Mindfulness
    Completed step number is 174, June 29th, 2017
  • Exercise completed!
    Small, Simple Step
    Completed step number is 173, June 29th, 2017
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    Compliment a Listener
    Completed step number is 172, June 29th, 2017
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    Self Care Initiative
    Completed step number is 171, June 17th, 2017
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    Practice Mindfulness
    Completed step number is 168, April 3rd, 2017
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    Nominate a Listener
    Completed step number is 167, March 15th, 2017

Feedback & Reviews
You're undoubtedly one of the best listeners I have found on the 7 cups, intelligent, kind and able to make people feel important and valid. I haven't noticed any single prejudice or even the smallest judgement. It's not that you just keep it for yourself, I'm sure you really don't judge and that you're simply prejudice-free. That's why you're so great at listening! Our chat helped me a lot. It was exactly what I needed.
Best listener ever comfortable chatting with a variety of topics
Good
Very helpful and warm!
Lovely, compassionate person. Made me feel safe and comfortable and is very open minded.
She actually cared and understood what i was saying
This listener is AMAZING! Knew exactly what to say to make me feel understood. Definately made me feel not so alone. Thank you!
A really great emphatic and gentle listener, who cheered me up a lot and made me feel like i am understood very quickly.
I am glad to have found them~
Good listener! Especially good if you want to discuss sexual issues. The listener is a trained sexologist and based on her experience, she makes good suggestions. Overall a nice and bold person to talk to.



I am really glad I meet her she is a wonderful listener.
I know the active listening and repeat back statements helped me immensely. I would appreciate a little less professionalism somewhat I think actually. A peer to talk to. But I was helped immensely!
Amazing listener! Headed the conversation exactly where I needed to. Really professional and sweet! :)
I was really nervous to start a live chat with someone, but Xi made me feel really comfortable the whole time. Even when I was not sure what to say, they kept the conversation going, until I felt better so I did not feel like I had to make something up or stop talking too quickly. It was good to talk with someone who gets how I am feeling. Xi helped me to look at the positives and encouraged me to look at how far I have come in my growth.
thank you very very much :)
was vary helpful, I look foreword to talking with them again
She listened well would really like to talk to her more thanks again
Great Listener!
I could tell she really understood me
Badges & Awards
Listening Ear Magnet Peppermint Jester of Smiles Clerk of Bear Hugs Ellen Jump Start Anxiety Depression Eating Disorders Managing Emotions Panic Attacks Surviving Breakups Traumatic Experiences Crisis Intervention Listener Oath Work Related Stress Self Harm Sexual Abuse Alcohol & Drug Abuse Family Support Grad Cultural Diversity Verified Listener Bullying Chronic Pain Family Stress Sleeping Well Graduate Master Love Bug Forumpedia Ally Refresher Light Chat Tiny Chat Small Chat Chit Chat Big Chat Voice Ray of Hope Shining Light Florence Nightingale Help Angel Break-A-Leg Self-Love College Guide Loneliness Guide Test Anxiety Exercise Motivation Affirmative Reflection Chat & Text Listening Ace Active Listening Guest Host Conversationalist Oprah Startup Support Feedback Perinatal Schizophrenia People of Color Guide ADHD Social Anxiety OCD Boundaries Forgiveness Grief Managing Bipolar Managing Finances Surviving Domestic Assault Getting Unstuck Hello Again Soaring 12 Steps Community 101 Hangout Key TS Key 2nd Birthday Party Sparkler Loyal Friend Tick Tock Fellow Friend Reconnection Hero I First Chat First Post Five Steps High 5 Hang 10 Open Door Thankful Heart Gratitude Abound Continuing Education
Questions Answered
Who can I talk to about my problems online?
November 18th, 2015 2:18am Does my anxiety cause me to be lazy?
November 23rd, 2015 9:14pm What is the safest way to bind your chest for FtM?
November 27th, 2017 4:58pm Why do I feel like I can't get past the bad things that have happened to me?
November 23rd, 2015 9:12pm