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Does it Count? Victim of Sextortion
Trauma Support / by Yannibeans
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August 20th, 2017
...See more I remember so clearly swiping through Tinder, just looking for someone to talk to. I spot this really attractive guy, with similar interests to mine. I swipe right and we match. He starts a conversation within 5 minutes of our matching. He was so fun at first. He asks for my number eventually, but I tell him that I don't give strangers my number. So we agreed to message on kik. He adds my account. I don't remember what his name on Tinder was, but I know that it was different from his kik profile. Not only that, but his profile picture was black. That should have been the first flag not to trust this guy, but I did anyway. What harm could he do, after all? We were only talking. Then, he started to change. He became flirty to the point where I felt almost uncomfortable. He asked for nude photos of me on multiple occasions over and over until I gave in one day. After that he disappeared. Then, one day in February, he messaged me again, but I'd forgotten about him already so I had no clue who he was. The first thing he did was send me one of the pictures I'd sent him and threaten to send it to everyone I know unless I did what he said. I wanted to refuse, but how could I? He had contacts to everyone I know, plus he knows where I live. So I did what he wanted and I continued to send him photos and videos, each request made my self worth diminish more and more until I finally blocked him. I didn't hear from him again for a few weeks until now. I don't know what to do...
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