Hello my name is Nicol. I've seen it all so I have personal experience with what you wish to talk about. My friends think I'm good at giving affixed and just being there for others. Hand me a paper I'll make a swan (although I can't do oragami). I have personally dealt with the following: depression, cutting, suicidal thoughts, a pressman close to me commuting suicide, a person close to me killed, alchol, family member death via cancer, family member on drugs, divorce, emotionally abandoned, running away, been in a mental hospital, sexually assaulted and more that I can't think about at the moment but I've accepted almost everything on this list and it makes me who I am and I'd love to help you feel good about yourself!