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ZestfulZalyn
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Relationship Stress / by ZestfulZalyn
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 January 13th, 2020
...See more I've been dating this guy for almost one year. And honestly I've never been happier. He's always made me smile and laugh even when I've been down. But recently, things haven't been so good lately. I feel like he doesn't care as much about me anymore. He stopped talking to me as much, and I have to be the one to start conversations. He's also stopped caring about what he says to me. He's been more explosive and just recently we got in an argument. He yelled at me and said some unkind words. I didn't like how he treated me and I said maybe we should have a small break. Right after I said that immediately regretted. Because I don't want to instantly have a break. I want to communicate with him. Tall about some problems we might have. Maybe he's been going through something. But he immediately agreed to it. And I regret saying it so much. Because I really love him. And I know he loves me too, and we were planning on having a future and everything together. But I feel like I make him doubt us. I had a panic attack and it was hard to type (since it was texting). He calmed down and eventually I got a bit better. Then out of no where he left me since he was tired. If he really loves me, wouldn't he have stayed up then? Wouldn't he talk this through instead of giving up on me that quick? What can I do to make him happier? I feel like I also have a quick changing attitude or that maybe I'm the one overreacting.
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