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...See more I met a guy online 2 years ago. I was very attracted to him and it was obvious that the feeling was mutual. We had a great first date, he was confident, funny and seemed a bit mysterious or unique? Prior to this I'd been in a few long relationships so had alot to learn about men and dating. The 2nd date wasnt great (he really made me pay for expressing my concern that he didnt contact me prior to the date, leaving it to me). He was rude, arrogant and seemed to feel justified in treating me this way even when I sincerely apologised. Anyway, months went by, with a few dates, texting, me getting annoyed that he constantly played mind games with me and him popping back up every month or so just as I felt I was letting go of him. Yes, I was hooked!!!!!!! Basically the tables turned somewhere down the line, I'd initiate contact, set up dates etc. I was on holiday when he text me telling me that he was thinking of me and was ready for a relationship. We met and spent a great weekend together, opening up about things, being friends, he asked me to be his +1 to a wedding and I even got to meet his sister and cousin. However, once I was out of site, it seemed I was out of mind. We agreed to be friends which seemed to be working (I valued his friendship and thought if it's meant to be then it will). However, since I have been adamant in pursuing a friendship rather than romance he is constantly angry with me and has said some cruel things to me. I cant get over him.

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