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agreeableHickory9108
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A damaged soul trying to feel complete..

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Am I unloved?
Relationship Stress / by agreeableHickory9108
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 December 30th, 2020
...See more Hi there, I never had a relationship. Not even a fling. It is said that the spark happens automatically, when someone likes you. In my whole college life, no one felt that spark with me. Seeing my friends have this thing going for them so easy (some with even options to consider), I'm beginning to think there is something wrong with me, that I was never meant for that. I never had troubles with making friends, nor it is that I'm hard to talk with. But just not the type when it comes to relationship. I'm quite worried, under stress and anxiety about future. I'm having a hard time accepting this. Please give some advice to this total relationship virgin in his 24 to cope with this.
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Anxiety Support / by agreeableHickory9108
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 December 14th, 2020
...See more Hi guys, Love to see people helping each other here. I'm 23, turning 24 next month. So I am not much of a people person. But I do like to spend time, party with friends, be around some people, which I wasn't able to do much of in my college life. I have quite strict parents and plus due to certain conditions at my home, me and my elder brother have to take care of our mom, so I had to miss out a lot. But with time I accepted the inevitable, and didn't paid much attention to it. Now, I have recently graduated, and I missed my only graduation ceremony, plus the party after that, due to the fact that any of us cannot afford any infection or so. Now I see them enjoying, living their lives so damn easily, I feel terrible, cause probably thats never gonna happen again. Now, I am reflecting upon my life as a sad, studious and workaholic person who will end up as a pathetic loner in future if I kept on missing out things. I might be overthinking, but I cannot get this out of my head. I am aware of the responsibilities, and I feel selfish and guilty to even want some fun with friends. But I get sad, depressed, feel helpless, even cry. I feel like my life has come to a halt, which will never ever change. I am destined to live like this. I just want to feel great again. Just bury these feelings, accept that I have to miss out, and just get on with whatever I have. How do I do this? P.S Pardon if this is the wrong thread. I'm new here :)
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