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im tired. im rlly tired.
Depression Support / by anon258
Last post
 May 6th, 2021
...See more im so tired of everything. my rls isnt going well and he just broke up w me because he wanted time to grow by himself when clearly i told him i could help him. he refused. my parents are a pain in the ass because i always have to be strong or else they think it’s a sign of weakness. i can never cry infront of them because ill probably get lectured for it after awhile. whenever i cry i hve to stay in my room and when they call for me i would hve to pretend nth happened and wipe my tears away. today was especially bad because i went to my bf’s house after he ignored me for a week. i went to see if he would talk to me but he wouldnt let me in his house so i waited outside for 2 hours. in the end, he didnt even come out to see me. i have a habit of scratching myself be it my arms or hands whenever i feel anxious or want to cry. i bite my hand as well whenever i cry to stop myself from making any crying sound. i know this may sound pathetic and annoying right now to some of u but i really want to let this out somewhere. i dont want to tell my friends and family because i dont think they would care that much. i just needed a place to let it out. if you read till here, thankyou.
advice... for a breakup(?)
Relationship Stress / by anon258
Last post
 April 19th, 2021
...See more hello.. this is my first time writing this and i’m not sure if anyone will see this but i have a problem rn with my boyfriend. just last saturday, i had texted him asking him this: ‘why dont you want to text me more? :(‘ im the type of person tat likes to get checked up on so i can feel cared for and i do this to my bf too. i wld occasionally text him ‘wdy’ etc. so when i texted him asking him why he wldnt text me more, he got annoyed at me. he said tat he did text me once asking whether i ate or not. yes thats true but i like it when he did it more. when i tried explaining that to him he got annoyed and said that he alr did it once. afterwards he ignored me for a whole week. he wouldnt reply to my texts so i went to his house to find him today. i went without telling him thinking i could comfort him and make things work out. instead he told me he didnt want to meet me and didnt want to talk to me even when i was waiting outside his house. i waited for over 2 hours but he wouldnt let me in. i asked him if he still wanted the relationship and he told me he isnt ready for one and that he wants to be alone. i just can’t understand this. why would u get annoyed at smth small and then ignore me for a week and tell me youre not ready for a relationship. if youre not ready then we can work on it together but he refused and told me he wanted to work on it alone. how can he work on it alone when it requires 2 people to communicate? at the end of the day he didnt want to continue the relationship anymore. was it my fault that i asked him an ‘annoying’ question?
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