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anoranza
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Anxiety and studying abroad?
Anxiety Support / by anoranza
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July 17th, 2017
...See more So I took a leap and am studying abroad in a different country from home. Initially I wasn't experiencing as much anxiety as I had anticipated but yesterday was really bad. All day I felt kind of out of it, headache, nausea, constant need to go to the bathroom. I brought my anxiety medication but now I'm fearing that if I keep experiencing episodes like this I won't have enough to last me the entire program and I was hoping to get some tips on how to reduce this feeling. For example this morning I woke up feeling anxious, possible because I was worried about feeling anxious again. I have a lot of support back at home but it's hard with the time difference and I don't want to cause any worry. My doctor told me I could reach out to him at any point but I'm not sure how that would help me out, maybe I should give it a shot. I've not told my professor here how I've been feeling because I'm not sure I'm comfortable enough to open up to her about this. I also have a little support from other students in the group but I don't want to feel like a burden or "Debbie downer" because I'm feeling too anxious to go out or do anything. Any advice or tips would be greatly appreciated. Thank you so much for listening
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Tired of waiting
Relationship Stress / by anoranza
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September 29th, 2016
...See more It's been over 4 months since we stopped talking. We had been having ups and downs for a while and then that argument was it, all communication stopped, there was never even an official "this is over, we're breaking up" kinda thing. It just stopped. But I guess we took it as a break up. A few weeks ago I thought I was finally starting to feel okay, I started the new semester which has helped me keep my mind off of this but I've just been missing him like crazy the past couple of days. I hate how much I've been thinking about him. Even in class my mind wanders because I'm thinking about him. I made it even worse by lurking his social media and seeing he had already resumed communication with a girl he loved before we started dating. It stings but I know he's going on with his life and I need to move on too but I fear I'm still in love with him and am not ready to have him completely out of my life. I did some cleaning and found some of his clothes. I want to give them back and I know I will, but I don't know how or when to reach out. Some of the items have sentimental value to him and I would feel better returning them to him but I'm scared to reach out to him to ask because of how things ended. I also feel like I don't really want to give them back because I think they're an excuse for him to reach out to me, but I know I'm only hurting myself more by waiting and I need to let go. If anyone has any advice on how to go about this I would appreciate it so much.
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