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Number of ratings85 Number of reviews77 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceDec 5, 2019 Last activein last week GenderFemale PathStep 240 People helped421 Chats878 Group support chats230 Listener group chats976 Forum posts1,074 Forum upvotes1,899
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PFP made by @FrenchMarbles

After much time and thought, I have decided to leave Cups. I am leaving my account live so that people have a chance to see my messages and then eventually will be putting my account on self care break, indefinitely. 

I am thankful for my time here and have learned so much from so many amazing people. Thank you to those of you who have supported me in my Listener journey and thank you to the members who have courageously trusted me with their stories. This journey is one that I will never forget


Recent forum posts
What Does Autism Mean To You
Autism Support / by beck1
Last post
 September 21st, 2023
...See more Hey all you wonderful people! 👋 Many of you have requested that we make a thread about the basics of autism so here we are! 🙌 Its going to be a little bit of information and a little interactive 🙂. If you want to scroll through all the writing and head straight to the questions, that's okay too! 👇 What is autism? Autism is a neurodevelopmental condition that may cause social, communicative and behavioral challenges. Simply put, autism is basically something that can affect the way we view the world and how we communicate with others. Autistic Traits Autism isn't always noticeable! Society has its own belief of what autism is but really, there is no "face" to an autistic person. Here are some traits you may see in yourself if you are autistic 💟 Being literal 💟 Reduced range of emotions or expressions 💟 Stimming / fidgeting 💟 "Black and white" / rigid thinking 💟 Creativity 💟 Poor / excessive use of eye contact 💟 Anxiety around change 💟 Needing structure / routines 💟 Sensory issues 💟 Echolalia 💟 Difficulty fitting in 💟 Special interests 💟 Difficulty making and maintaining friendships This is not all autistic traits, just some that I picked out so that you all could have a voice and share your own experiences Now to the fun part - the questions!! ✨ If you were to describe autism to someone, how would you describe it? ✨ What autistic traits do you have? (They can be from the list or others) ✨ What ways do you think being autistic impacts your life? These impacts can be positive or negative ------------------------- Some other threads that you might find interesting 😮 💻 Teaching Listeners About Autism [https://www.7cups.com/forum/autism/DiscussionsResources_2596/TeachingListenersAboutAutism_312039/] - check this thread out if you would like to teach the listeners here a little more about autism 💻 Taglist [https://www.7cups.com/forum/autism/CommunitySpace_2575/AutismAutomatedTaglist_306815/] - Feel free to sign up to our taglist so that you can be tagged in threads like this one!! 💻 5 Things You Shouldn't Say To Someone On The Autism Spectrum [https://www.7cups.com/forum/autism/DiscussionsResources_2596/5ThingsYouShouldntSaytoSomeoneontheAutismSpectrum_311937/] - @Jenna did an awesome job putting this thread together. Definitely recommend checking it out. (all blue, underlined text is clickable) ------------------------- Taglist : @Alwayshungry983 @AutiBoy @azuladragon34 @beck1 @courteousCoconut2519 @Fozziewozzie @GwydionRowan @HarmonyBlossom @HatsEatYou @Howegeorgia @Jenna @JustMeUwU @LoveMyMoonflowers @NightOwl2003 @Plantsaremybestfriends @sentientape @SillyBlue32 @SleepyShyCat @smileking @smolLITTLEpotato @SomebodySpicy @StressedGirl @SunnyCat0 @teenytinyturtle @theboymoana @tommy @unassumingPeach6421 @Vivikun9 @wishfulWillow6962 @Zahrian2112
✨ Autism Support - September Check In ✨
Autism Support / by beck1
Last post
 October 20th, 2023
...See more Hi all! Welcome to this months check in! 👋 Here are some questions for you to think about! If you feel comfortable, feel free to answer them below! ✨ Do you have any plans for this month? Anything you're looking forward to? Anything you're worried about? ✨ Do you have a sensory corner/room? If so, what do you enjoy about it? If not, what would it look like if you did? ✨ Do you have certain sensory toys/tools that you take on the go with you when you leave the house? If you're not comfortable answering the questions, that's totally okay! Maybe you could leave an encouraging word or quote for those struggling right now I look forward to seeing you all around Cups! ------------------------- Some other threads that you might find interesting 😮 💻 Welcome Thread [https://www.7cups.com/forum/autism/General_2554/WelcomeTotheAutismSupport_309588/] - come introduce yourself and check out all the awesome things about this community. 💻 Taglist [https://www.7cups.com/forum/autism/CommunitySpace_2575/AutismAutomatedTaglist_306815/] - Feel free to sign up to our taglist so that you can be tagged in threads like this one!! (all blue, underlined text is clickable) ------------------------- Tag list : @Alwayshungry983 @AutiBoy @azuladragon34 @beck1 @courteousCoconut2519 @Fozziewozzie @GwydionRowan @HarmonyBlossom @HatsEatYou @Howegeorgia @Jenna @JustMeUwU @LoveMyMoonflowers @NightOwl2003 @Plantsaremybestfriends @sentientape @SillyBlue32 @SleepyShyCat @smileking @smolLITTLEpotato @SomebodySpicy @StressedGirl @SunnyCat0 @teenytinyturtle @theboymoana @tommy @unassumingPeach6421 @Vivikun9 @wishfulWillow6962 @Zahrian2112
Teaching Listeners About Autism
Autism Support / by beck1
Last post
 September 18th, 2023
...See more 👋 Hi Awesome People!!! 👋 As most of you may know, we are always looking for ways to help Listeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]support members in the best way that they can! Sometimes Listeners come to Cups not really knowing about certain topics but eager to learn! That's where you all come in! 🙌 What are some things that you wish Listeners knew about Autism? This could be anything from knowing the basic description of what autism really is to the best ways to communicate during the chats! Although some of you may have had negative experiences with Listeners, I ask that you please don't bring that on this thread! You can definitely turn those negative experiences into things that you would like to see Listeners say/do/know! I'm always available in PMs is anyone has any questions or concerns about this! ------------------------- Some other threads that you might find interesting 😮 💻 Welcome Thread [https://www.7cups.com/forum/autism/General_2554/WelcomeTotheAutismSupport_309588/] - come introduce yourself and check out all the awesome things about this community. 💻 Taglist [https://www.7cups.com/forum/autism/CommunitySpace_2575/AutismAutomatedTaglist_306815/] - Feel free to sign up to our taglist so that you can be tagged in threads like this one!! ------------------------- Tag list @Alwayshungry983 @azuladragon34 @Fozziewozzie @GwydionRowan @HarmonyBlossom @HatsEatYou @Howegeorgia @Jenna @JustMeUwU @NightOwl2003 @Plantsaremybestfriends @sentientape @SillyBlue32 @SleepyShyCat @smolLITTLEpotato @StressedGirl @SunnyCat0 @teenytinyturtle @theboymoana @tommy @unassumingPeach6421 @Vivikun9 @wishfulWillow6962 @Zahrian2112
What Resources / Threads Would You Like To See In Autism Support?
Autism Support / by beck1
Last post
 September 18th, 2023
...See more Hi everyone!!! 👋 As you know, this sub community is a newer one and we are looking to make it as accessible and helpful as possible! That's why we would love to see what resources you would like to see here! These resources could include: ✨Links to your favorite YouTube Creators (Specifically for Autism) ✨ Your favorite stimming toys/tools ✨ Things that help during or after meltdowns ✨ Ideas for future threads that you would like to see Etc Please feel free to let us know below, even if its something different than the list above! ------------------------- If you're new to the community, hi 👋 glad to have you here! Be sure to check out the Welcome Thread here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/autism/General_2554/WelcomeTotheAutismSubCommunity_309588/] to introduce yourself If you would like to be tagged in the awesome happenings of this community, including check ins, discussions and a whole lot more, be sure to check out the taglist here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/autism/CommunitySpace_2575/AutismAutomatedTaglist_306815/] (all blue, underlined text is clickable) ------------------------- Tag list : @Alwayshungry983 @azuladragon34 @Fozziewozzie @GwydionRowan @HarmonyBlossom @HatsEatYou @Howegeorgia @Jenna @JustMeUwU @NightOwl2003 @Plantsaremybestfriends @sentientape @SillyBlue32 @SleepyShyCat @smolLITTLEpotato @StressedGirl @SunnyCat0 @teenytinyturtle @theboymoana @tommy @unassumingPeach6421 @Vivikun9 @wishfulWillow6962 @Zahrian2112
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Know our feelings very much
Listened very patiently
she was overall just amazing and it was so fun talking with her
She's awesome. The most friendly person I've talked with on here
Really good and compassionate listener and not judging :) Helped me a lot!
Wonderful listener. I felt at ease chatting with Beck and she was supportive and cheered me up.
great listener and sweet❤️
i love you thank for listening to me
She's really good and nice and she understands me alot she the best I already love her :)
Beck is amazing and always happy to chat 💜
Really helpful
She was supportive, patient and positive without being dismissive.
Beck, is the most awesome listener one can find on 7 cups. Really amazing. I never thought i can meet person like her on 7 cups. She heard my feelings and validate them. I was like i can finally talk to someone and being heard. I wish her success in life 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 Thank you beck so much.
amazing, she helped me feel better
She's the most amazing and awesome listener anyone can find on 7 cups.
She was amazing
shes amazing and understands she listens. =)
She’s great and try her best to help me. She’s really helpful!
The listener was quite good at the job. They tried to keep the conversation flowing and helped.
She's so humble and understanding
she's awesome ^^ good listener for sure!
Beck is always awesome to talk to. I appreciate her so much.
Very nice. Great ❤️
A listener with full of love empathy n compassion a pure soul I absolutely recommend them!
Beck is a talented listener. It felt like I was fortunate when I found a listener like her. There was zero judgement and so easy to just talk my issues out and I feel like a huge weight got lifted off my shoulders. I was vulnerable but I knew I was safe. Thank you so much, Beck🌞
Very kind and caring.
Wow! What to say other than thank you Becki! I've been on this site for a while, saw the good and the bad, but noone comes close to the professionality, compassion, knowledge and resources you provided. I'm really grateful. As someone who's going through a tough time, knowing that a complete stranger on the internet can give me so much of themselves and ask nothing in return restores my faith in humanity. Thanks a lot, you're a star
Courteous and caring Listener. She deserves everyone's gratitude and respect for the work she puts in to make this site meaningful for its members. I'm thankful
she's very kind to talk to. And she understands you completely. Her words are so nice they calm you down instantly
She was really kind and patient, a nice listener :)
Thanks for listening
Amazing listener
Hi, beck1 awesome
reliably responsive and thoughtful. A very good listener
Beck was supportive and understanding
Very helpful and understanding and highlighted my great qualities
Gave me her attention and listened well, very kind
Good listener with beautiful heart!
Really nice experience.
very good listener she is empathetic,considerate and a really good person
I really loved the way she asked questions about where my problems may stem from!
Fantastic, professional, insight
Great help and listens and encourages you to try things
Good listener keep up the good work!!!
She was very helpful in the way she listened, and helped me to process what was going on without imposing her views.
Kind warm helpful
Nice polite and easy to talk
She made me feel comfortable and it was a safe space
Good listener, we talked alot.
great listener thanks
Good listener and helpful.
Kind helpful person
Lovely kind person who really helped me feel better
She's a very good listener and very helpful ❤️
Wonderful person.
She was so kind and gentle.
Amazing listener Thank you
Very good listener. It was a pleasure to chat
Very good listener. She genuinely showed interest and inquired about things she didn't understand. Very motivational and showed interest in keeping in touch. I am happy with this chat.
Thank you for getting me out of my funk. You are a great listener and a productive advisor.
She helped me find some helpful resources.
Becki is a great listener and asks very thought-provoking questions. I would definitely recommend her!
great chat amazing person i could talk to her all day
Super nice and caring
Good listener. Warm hearted.
Good listener, didn't judge me for my mistakes and let me find my own answer by guiding me with thought provoking questions.
Great chat thanks
She is very nice and non judgemental
Nonjudgmental and really helped me reconsider things in a good light
She is very friendly, it was nice to talk to her
thanks so much for helping!
Good listener i hope it afterall
OK chat calmed me down
Nice, easy going and good to talk to .
Great listener, really tried to understand my problem and provide encouragement
Awesome listener :3
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