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bellarina74 |
Listener - Explorer 6

Listener Rating
5.0 star rating

I am a kind, compassionate person who enjoys helping people. I enjoy reading biographies and non fiction books. My family and friends are important to me and I try to strike an equal balance between by personal and professional lives.

Number of Ratings: 20
Number of Reviews: 15
Listens to Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Jan 27, 2020
Last Active in last week
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 134
Cheers 24,395
People Helped 154
Chats 351
Group Support Chats 2
Listener Group Chats 1
Forum Posts 99
Forum Upvotes 60
Growth Path Timeline
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    Listening is important Work

Feedback & Reviews
Very kind and thoughtful. Listens well
She's very nice . Great listening skills
kind, approachable, attentive, asks good questions
She was reassuring but also gave me a different view of my relationship that I hadn't considered. I feel much more at peace now
So understanding and made me feel so much better 😌
Very kind and supportive, good listener. :)
Very helpful insightful and supportive... It was a pleasure to talk to her...
Such a beautiful and sweet person who is so caring and emphathetic and gave me hope
They were pretty friendly and helpful. A good listener.
Good listener keep up the good work!!!
Very sweet and very understanding...she is the best listener here...and all the best for ur big day Bel 😊😊
Thank you for listening
Bellarina74 happened to be there for me when I needed it the most.
Very supportive, i was having a panic attack, the worst one I'd ever had and they managed to help me through it
Listened to what I was saying and didn't try to fix me. Just actually listened and talked about life! Also, didn't try shoving counseling down my throat.
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Questions Answered
How can I stop letting my depression make me feel like a burden to others?
March 22nd, 2020 2:17am
Is it normal to think about suicide everyday?
March 25th, 2020 4:35pm
Why do I always think everything I do is wrong?
February 23rd, 2020 1:28am
How do I tell my parents I'm depressed?
January 31st, 2020 9:10pm
How do I stop being judgemental?
February 1st, 2020 5:34am
I think I have depression and I want to tell my parents but my brother recently got diagnosed so I feel like they would think that I'm just trying to get attention. What do I do?
March 25th, 2020 3:18pm
How do I help explain to a parent that what I feel is valid after they reacted badly?
January 31st, 2020 8:52pm
Why do I always self sabotage and ignore my emotions?
January 25th, 2021 1:56pm
How do I keep myself from overreacting?
January 31st, 2020 2:52pm
Why do I feel better than everyone else?
January 31st, 2020 9:25pm
Why do I feel worse after crying?
March 25th, 2020 9:48am
I have very rapid mood swings, what's the best way to manage them so no one gets hurt?
June 5th, 2021 6:44pm
How can I deal with being blamed for things that aren't my fault?
March 25th, 2020 4:24pm
What should I do if I can't get a job?
January 31st, 2020 8:58pm
How do I tell my boss I'm leaving? (nicely)?
February 1st, 2020 11:06am
My manager is very impatient and often criticises me. I cant take criticism well and have a low threshold of stress. What can I do to get stronger (to cope) on my own and without changing her at all?
June 5th, 2021 7:06pm
Why do I feel so empty and unfulfilled in my profession? How do I overcome this?
January 31st, 2020 2:39pm
Should I stay at a job that I hate?
February 22nd, 2020 7:37pm
How do I leave a toxic relationship?
March 25th, 2020 9:28am
How can I control my eating when I have impulse control issues?
March 25th, 2020 3:22pm
Why do I always fail even when I try my hardest?
March 25th, 2020 9:33am
Why do I always feel like people are laughing at me when I don't hear it?
January 31st, 2020 2:56pm
What does it mean when you get nervous for no reason?
March 25th, 2020 4:39pm
A family member thinks I am lying about where I am going but I'm not, what should I do?
February 1st, 2020 10:56am
How can I overcome anxiety if I can't talk to a therapist or my own doctor?
January 31st, 2020 3:05pm
How will divorce affect my child?
January 25th, 2021 2:04pm
How can you unlove someone?
April 26th, 2020 1:15pm
How can I forget about the bad memories of my past?
January 31st, 2020 9:05pm
Why do I feel like I'm cheating on him still, even though we broke up months ago?
January 31st, 2020 9:15pm
what does it mean when he says he doesn't want to break up but he is not sure if he loves you anymore?
February 1st, 2020 5:26am
How can I tell my boyfriend how I feel about him?
January 31st, 2020 9:21pm
How do I tell my boyfriend I'm not happy?
July 5th, 2020 2:19pm
How to talk to your boyfriend about marriage?
June 5th, 2021 6:52pm
Why is he ignoring me after breakup?
February 1st, 2020 11:01am
Why do I get over people so easily?
January 31st, 2020 3:09pm
Why are we fighting over small and stupid things?
March 22nd, 2020 2:12am
How do I know if I'm in a toxic relationship?
February 1st, 2020 6:17am
Can or should I ask my significant other to stop talking and to not associate with his ex? If so, how?
February 22nd, 2020 7:31pm
Why should I stop drinking?
January 31st, 2020 2:46pm
My boyfriend or girlfriend is embarrassed of me. What should I do?
June 5th, 2021 7:16pm
How much exercise is too much?
March 25th, 2020 4:29pm
Why is exercise important for me?
February 1st, 2020 6:23am
Feeling cooped up at home - what should I do?
April 17th, 2021 6:35pm
How do I approach someone that frequently ignores my questions via text messages and then texts me back without acknowledging my question as if I never asked?
April 13th, 2020 2:44pm
I feel like isolating myself, but deep inside I am very lonely. What do I do?
March 25th, 2020 9:38am
I cheated on my boyfriend of six years, What do I do?
January 25th, 2021 2:13pm