Nothing is black and white, there is grey in between. What is it that you do that makes you a good person or a bad person? Do you feel that the things involved in your life make you bad? I have done bad things in my life, and sometimes they make me feel sick. I just make sure to remember that I'm human and human's aren't perfect. So I'll listen to what you have to say, and (only if you want) I can give you personal advice through my own experiences. This website doesn't really want the "listeners" to do such a thing, as sometimes things can become opinionated and that could do more harm than good. Just remember that I only ever give my personal advice if you really want it. I feel that I give the best advice on relationships with people, family, and one's own self. I am allowed to turn you away if I find your behavior inappropriate and rude towards me.