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bhputnam |
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Hey there, my name's Ben. I'm new to 7 Cups of Tea, but not to listening, advice, or therapy forums in general. I'm well-versed in a wide variety of issues and situations, and please don't hesitate to contact me if you need anything. If I'm offline, please feel free to send me a message too. My door's always open.

Hakuna matata.
Number of Ratings: 9
Number of Reviews: 4
Listens to Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Dec 22, 2014
Last Active in last month
Gender Male
Progress Path Step 211
Cheers 3,792
People Helped 16
Chats 67
Group Support Chats 0
Listener Group Chats 0
Forum Posts 1
Forum Upvotes 0
Categories
Depression
Managing Emotions
Work Stress
Bullying
Eating Disorders
Panic Attacks

Anxiety
LGBTQ+
Sleeping Well
Breakups
Alcohol/Drug Use
Family Stress
Feedback & Reviews
She was amazing. I've never had someone who understood what I have been through. She understood me and spoke to me like a friend. Made me feel comfortable about opening up. I felt like I was having talks over tea or something and not rushed. She never made me feel stupid or crazy. She listened and gave me so of the best advice. I feel relieved after just one chat. And instead of brushing me off she invited me to chat with her some more and she let me know that she is here for me.
Haboneđź’š
Good guy
Very kind person who responds with wisdom and good level of understanding, truly feels like they have your interest at heart
A great listener and very empathetic.
Badges & Awards
Anxiety Depression Eating Disorders Managing Emotions Panic Attacks Surviving Breakups Traumatic Experiences Crisis Intervention Work Related Stress Self Harm Sexual Abuse Alcohol & Drug Abuse Family Support Cultural Diversity Verified Listener Bullying Chronic Pain Psychological First Aid Family Stress Sleeping Well Graduate Master Refresher iListen Self-Love College Guide Loneliness Guide Test Anxiety Exercise Motivation ACT Therapy Affirmative Reflection Chat & Text Listening Ace Active Listening Loyal Friend Tick Tock Fellow Friend Five Steps Hang 10
Questions Answered
What is the best way to deal with unfriendly co-workers?
November 25th, 2014 1:22am What's the difference between bullying and teasing?
November 25th, 2014 1:24am I'm stressed out and when I try to go to sleep I can't shut off my thoughts. What should I do?
July 19th, 2015 7:24pm How can I stop thinking and shut my brain off?
November 28th, 2014 2:57pm How to deal with sleep paralysis?
November 28th, 2014 3:04pm