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blueBike8020
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My friend just destroyed my self esteem
Friendship Support / by blueBike8020
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 February 12th, 2023
...See more Hi- I really don’t know who or where else to go to to vent about this because I don’t want to confront my friend and cause a scene over this. For the sake of the story I’ll go by S. Basically I was with 2 of my friends at a party. My one friend, let’s call her A has always been considered the “prettier friend”. Of course I’m jealous of that, but she’s so humble and sweet that it never really irked me too much, and besides I have learned to feel comfortable in my own skin. However at this party my other friend, B, wanted to go talk to some guys. As we were walking over to the guys B says to me point blank “S stand behind A she’s so much prettier than you, and it will help get these guys attention. Prettier girl in the front, and uglier in the back”. I know she was drunk and we were at a party, and I shouldn’t care so much about how other view my look, but it made me feel so unbelievably awful about myself. Anyways thank you for letting me rant if you made it this far
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Any advice for getting over a guy?
Relationship Stress / by blueBike8020
Last post
 November 13th, 2021
...See more Hello all! So over the past few weeks I was talking to this guy. We would talk all day and be honestly did seem interested in me, and I felt really special because I’ve never had something like that before. I felt like we were such a good match and blah blah blah. Anyways turns out this boy was just leading me on and was flirting with multiple other girls on the side :). So I kind of just cut him off this week and we haven’t talked since. Here’s the thing- I know he’s toxic and I think I’m happy with the decision I made to stop talking to him, but theres still that part of me that has feelings for him. I just want him to stop living rent free in my head, and I want to move on to bigger and better things. Does anyone have any advice on moving on? Thank you!
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Dropped by a guy overnight
Relationship Stress / by blueBike8020
Last post
 November 8th, 2021
...See more So I’ve been talking to this guy from my school for a few weeks now. He used to initiate everything. We would Snapchat every day, and he’d always open my messages and reply to me at a reasonable time (usually within a minute to an hour). He would suggest cute date ideas, ask all sorts of thoughtful questions about me, and overall just gave off the impression that he liked me. I felt super special that for the first time in my life a guy wanted to chase after me and flirt with me. All my friends thought he liked me too. So anyways two Saturday’s ago he asked my to FaceTime him and we FaceTimed for hours. It was a great conversation- we both seemed to love each other company. However that seemed to be the very last good interaction I’d have with him. Since then he takes hours (sometimes almost a whole day) to respond to me, and his answers are so dry and so dull it’s like he dreads talking to me. We were best friends on snap and now we no longer have the heart. I know it sounds silly but it did actually hurt my feelings when I saw the heart emoji was gone. I see him flirt with other girls now, and a mutual friend of ours seemed to hint to me that he was no longer interested. I honestly just feel so stupid, and I’ve just been in such a slump. We still have a snap streak going, and I’m not sure if I want to try to keep talking to him, leave him on open, or leave him on delivered. Does anyone have any advice, or just a perspective on the situation? Thank you! I know that it’s not the biggest issue, but I am struggling with it, and it would be nice to hear from someone outside of my friend circle.
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