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Idk what to do
Relationship Stress / by blueCircle6035
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 June 20th, 2022
...See more So what happened is that i meet this boy at first it was just a crush we used to just check out each other... It happened for a few days then one day he called his friend and asked him to give the phone to me then we talked for the first time he said that he has a girlfriend so we can't continue this whole deal and i was okay with I don't want to get in between a good relationship and he said we can still be friends and i was like okay that's fine with me and the next day passed without any word from him and then the next day he texted me at night saying that he has caught feelings for me and flirted with me for 2:30 hours and the next day also he kept on calling me and texting me and in between this i have a very bad habit of becoming attached with a person really fast and telling him things that they should not know as my first impression So i told him about one incident in which a boy gave me his no. When i went to the market he was very much against the idea of taking no. From a stranger so he said you shouldn't have done that which i know i was wrong but it's already done i can't do anything about it then that day at night when he texted me again i was busy so i told him that he got offended by that and said i know you don't have any importance of me in your life and stuff and then he didn't texted me or called me again so after a few days their was this one boy who he despised a lot bcoz of his habits so that boy liked me and approached me one day and said he wanted to talk to me once so we talked on...for once and i had no intention of dating him or anything i just wanted to tell him that no whatever you are thinking is not going to happen and like no i don't like you or anything so. So i talked to him clarified everything and it was over but now it's been one week since i talked to the boy i was previously talking about so i called him and just asked what's wrong and in the moment and idiotically told him about the convo with that boy and he got angry at me about it and told how could you talk to him when i told you he is not a good person...and one thing lead to another he just said you know what i have never seen girl as shameless and stupid as you like you go around talking to any boy without even knowing him like what's wrong with you and...we had a good fight after that But now the problem is i realised it was true it was really stupid of me to tell him all that just when were on the stage of knowing each other like it was natural for him to make a opinion about me like that but i still wasn't able to fully blame myself bcoz why did he even approached me or flirted with me when he had a girlfriend It's just now i have started to get feelings for him i don't know what to do whether i should talk to him or let him go and talk to him once and sort it out then let go I just stressed about what to do Pleasee pleaseeeeeeee help me To sort this out
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