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Attracting someone who just broke up?
Relationship Stress / by blueToffee0909
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 January 6th, 2021
...See more Hi guys. I've followed a really attractive girl on Instagram for some time and haven't yet made a move on her, mainly because of other things going on in my life but also more recently because she's had a boyfriend. Long story short, she's very recently split up with him and it got messy, so she's feeling pretty down. I offered my consolations to her and she thanked me for it, but now I want to try and capitalise on her being single and try to attract her. How would you say is best to approach it? I know she won't be in that headspace right now and it'll need patience and care, but any thoughts you have on proceeding would be appreciated. Maybe she's out of my league, maybe she'll be charmed by my old-school romantic style, I won't know until I try but I want to put my best foot forward and do this right. Thanks in advance for any tips :)
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Attracting Someone On Twitter?
Relationship Stress / by blueToffee0909
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 December 24th, 2020
...See more I've recently got to know someone on Twitter who is ten years older than me. Initially I was just chatting to be friendly but I've started to become attracted to her, but I'm inexperienced with dating older women so I feel more worried about making mistakes with her. I actually feel like I've done okay with the talking so far though. Anyway, just as I thought it was going well, she's started what looks like flirting with someone who seems popular with a lot more followers, but also ten years younger. He is reciprocating and I think it would come across as desperate and too early to call her out on it. She's obviously doing it out in the open which is a bit of a low blow, I feel like I could be overreacting but at the same time I'm cautious of overlooking obvious signs they're flirting and missing out altogether. What would you guys say would be the best way to proceed?
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