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I kept acting distant, when i broke up he didnt care as well
Relationship Stress / by bouna
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 December 14th, 2021
...See more Hello, I am so sorry that my problems are actually not important at all, but i need to share it with someone. I was seeing this guy for 3 months. The first month was great, but when we officially started dating he started to pull himself back. He kept acting distant for too long. And no matter what i did, he just kept seeing me in my apartment or his, not anywhere public. I kept telling him that this bothered me, but we never did anything public as well after starting officially dating. I kept telling him that i had no patience left to tolarate his behaviour anymore, and he said "i know i have been acting distant, and i will not be doing that anymore". Yesterday i texted him that i wanted to break up (i knew he wouldnt come to talk face to face so i texted). He kept texting about normal stuff instead. I said "i guess my messages were not clear, we are not dating anymore". He said "aah i didnt have time to read your messages yet". Later that day he just texted stuff like how are you how was your day and stuff like that. I said "did you even read what i wrote?" And thats it, no response yet. I am just waiting if he will text me today after he gets home and then i will stop waiting for a response as well. It just hurts to see that i wasnt even worthy for a response of a break up text (i am not waiting him to beg me, i am fine even if he says just "okey"), but he didnt say anything about breakup. He also said "i am afraid you will leave me so i am being precautious" (i have a student visa and so i am from another country, maybee he just kept thinking one day i will have to go back to my country, but i dont think he would be that emotional) I think he just lost interest for some reason, and this thought just hurts me a lot right now. Because why would he keep being distant while he realized that himself as well. So sorry if i wasted anyones time with my silly problems, and thank you if you read it so far.
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