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...See more I’ve been in a really complex set of relationships in the past. the only reason why I’m not anymore is a 55 year old divorcee, he’s really close to my family so after his divorce(he got a divorce a few months ago) he came back from Europe and started living m with us. initially he was helping me with everything, He and I used to be able to talk almost about anything out there. Then honestly things became something else quiet abruptly and we got crazy about each other the problem is that I’m 23. the difference in our age is too much and due to cultural and social issues around me he and I cant get married. he and I both are quiet guilty because we both feel as if we’re letting eachother not have potentially strong partners for one another. I think he would be better off with someone his age, she could give him the stability I can never give him. but we both just kinda always put it on eachother and it never happens we both just don’t want to lose eachother. we’re crazy about each other but sometimes I get anxious that what will be happening in the future, how will I be able to tell my family that I’m never going to be getting married and for how long will either of us manage this secret relationship. how they sometimes tell me that when girls go over 30 it is hard for them to get married and there is no time anymore etc, sometimes it just becomes too overwhelming.

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