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bubblePeach9650
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 January 27th, 2022
...See more I have broken from my partner of 8 yrs after coming to know about his compulsive sexual behaviour and habitual cheating. He says only one was an affair and the rest all flings due to substance abuse. He has been majorly absent emotionally and physically unavailable and possibly narcissistic. But I feel sorry for him now that I know about his childhood trauma and other relationship traumas. Our relationship has been toxic and rushed we rushed into it before we recovered from traumatic failed first marriages . I had a traumatic childhood. My father being a narcissist and cheater who molested me since I was 13 till I fled into a marriage which gave signals of doom even before it materialised. My mother was also traumatised and swayed from loathing to praising me. Nothing in between. have been abusive in my relationship with this partner I broke but and I do have some three or four narcissistic traits while he has plenty. I am being drawn to mend this relationship and I don't know what to do. I know I need to heal. But I have self sabotaging behaviour. I want to live but am too confused with myself and I am not doing anything to help myself. I feel lost that I was cheated for so long. I don't know what to do. Please help.
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