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bubblyFaith17 |
Listener - Intermediate 2

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Let me first say how proud I am of you taking this brave step to reach out and talk with someone.  You are valid.  You matter.   You are safe talking with me.  

My profile contains A LOT of information and links  that I will try to update as frequently as possible.   Feel free to always check back to see if I've added information and resources that  might be of use to you or someone in your life.   

You will also see that there are some things that I do not feel comfortable discussing.   This is not because I don't care - it may be that this particular topic is triggering for me personally or is something that may be unfamiliar or I do not understand well enough to support.

About me: I am a bi-racial (Native American) adoptee, born female and identify as gender fluid , on the Ace-Spectrum, with no preferred pronoun.  In my pre-COVID world, I enjoyed live music, the outdoors - fishing, hunting, camping, riding 4 wheelers and dirt bikes and riding horses.  I also enjoy painting, crafts, reading, Native American history (I am currently learning  my Native language), any history pertaining to monarchies of the world.  I have been playing World of Warcraft on and off for the last 10 years - although I have returned playing consistently since quarantine.  I am also learning to do Native American beadwork and dance.  Like many people in the LGBTQIAP+ community, I have been disowned by my family, after changing my name and coming out recently.  I have self-prepared, filed and successfully received  court orders granting access to my original birth certificate, a legal name change and a DNA test to confirm my biological paternal family and continuing to move forward in reclaiming my life for myself.  I have experience with ADHD, domestic violence, military sexual trauma,  PTSD (and C-PTSD), anxiety, depression, suicide attempt survival, adoption trauma, divorce and many other life experiences.

I also recommend the following easy to read books:  Primal Wound (about adoptees) and Atomic Habits (about breaking toxic habits and  rebuilding yourself with positive affirmations)  I receive no compensation and am not endorsing any particular individual or publisher or other entity - these are just books that I have  read or am currently reading and find to be very helpful for me PERSONALLY.  I will update my list as I find new books.

I accept members who are Veterans, active duty and reserve personnel, current or former law enforcement, security personnel, firefighters, first responders and corrections officers.


Please leave me a star rating and a written review regarding our chat! It is my hope that you have felt heard and understood during our time together.

 I understand that sometimes personalities sometimes just don't quite "click". If you feel that at anytime during our chat you would like to find another listener, please tell me and I will be happy to try to locate an available listener for you or you're welcome to search here:  https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/  My concern is for you to feel comfortable as I know that opening up can be difficult. If at any time you are feeling overwhelmed or anxious during our chat, please let me know and we can chat about something less stressful for a bit until you are feeling comfortable again. The time we have together chatting is for YOU.  We can always schedule a time to chat and pick up where we left off at our previous conversation. 


I have a rotating schedule based around my work and school schedule.  Any time listed in my profile or feed is Central Time.  Our time together will last between 30 to 45 minutes and I will let you know ahead of time how much time we have left. As I mentioned above, we can always schedule a time to pick up where we left off at our previous conversation.  If you send me a message and I do not answer right away, I will respond as soon as possible.  You are also welcome to use our browser to connect with another listener.  There, you are able to enter keywords and search for listeners according to topics that relate to you.



Boundaries:
**Unfortunately I do not give advice. Advice is really easy to give, but it can sometimes be wrong or even harmful. I don't have a full understanding of your life or world. Any advice I'd give you would be limited and potentially wrong. You are the expert on you. The best thing I can do for you is to help you figure out the path that makes the most sense to you.

**Asking for personal information. There are some things that I am able to tell you in general terms, but persisting for personal information is uncomfortable for me.  I'm willing to share some similar experiences with you, but my focus is on supporting and listening to you and helping you find the path and ideas for becoming the best YOU! 

**I do not accept or particpate in chats with sexual content . This includes fantasies, fetishes, etc.  This is NON-NEGOTIABLE.

**Active Suicidal Thoughts:
If you are serious about committing suicide, I’m really glad you came on here for help today. I understand you’re experiencing a lot of pain right now and really feel like you can’t go on. The thing is, I know that I’m not going to be able to give you the help you need and deserve right now. I know of some hotlines and helplines I can give you where there are professionals who can give you better help than I can. I will list them below.  If this is an emergency, please call 911 or the emergency number for your country, as 7 cups is unable to directly connect you with emergency personnel. Once you are no longer in danger or crisis, please come back and we can talk. 

If you feel that  your situation is not serious, you're not in immediate danger and not having an emergency, please feel free to message me. 

National Suicide Prevention Hotline -  http://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ or you can call 800-273-8255. They DO have a chat option. 
For deaf and hard of hearing - 800-799-4889  and En Espanol - Nacional de Prevención del Suicidio http://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/help-yourself/en-espanol/  888-628-9454  ***The chat option is located in the top right hand corner of the site should you choose to use the chat option. 

If you are in crisis you can also connect with the Crisis Text Line by texting HOME to 741741, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.  


Hotlines, Helpline and Useful Information:

imalive.org - an online crisis chat service, for anyone anywhere in the world.
suicidestop.com - helps you find online chat, emergency numbers and crisis hotlines for many different countries in the world.
befrienders.org - helps you find helplines by country
suicide.org - List of suicide helplines-

Veterans or Family and Friends of Veterans including National Guard and Reserve who are in crisis, can call the Veterans Crisis Line at 800-273-8255 and Press 1 or use the online chat at  https://www.veteranscrisisline.net/  - Dial 911 if there is an emergency. If you are not in crisis or in danger, please message me for confidential chat. 
You can also send a text message to 838255 to receive confidential crisis support 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year.
Support for deaf and hard of hearing individuals is available at 800-799-4889

Domestic Abuse Resources:
Note: 
Computer use can be monitored and is impossible to completely clear. If you are afraid your internet usage might be monitored, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800−799−7233 or TTY 800−787−3224. Users of web browser Microsoft Edge will be redirected to Google when clicking the “X” or “Escape” button.
https://www.thehotline.org/ and click CHAT NOW

En Espanol: Aviso de Seguridad: Su computadora podría estar siendo monitoreada y es imposible borrar completamente el historial de sitios en internet que ha visitado. Si tiene temor de que alguien podría estar monitoreando su uso del internet, llame a la Línea Telefónica de Ayuda contra la Violencia Doméstica marcando el número de teléfono 800−799−7233 o el número TTY (línea telefónica de texto para personas con problemas de la audición y del habla) 800−787−3224. 
https://espanol.thehotline.org/  Chat en español

National Child Abuse Hotline https://www.childhelp.org/hotline/  for more information or call 800-422-4453
The Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline is dedicated to the prevention of child abuse. Serving the U.S. and Canada, the hotline is staffed 24 hours a day, 7 days a week with professional crisis counselors who—through interpreters—provide assistance in over 170 languages. The hotline offers crisis intervention, information, and referrals to thousands of emergency, social service, and support resources. All calls are confidential. Unfortunately there is no chat option except for the state of Arizona.  I have included a link that gives the contact information in each US state for Child Protective Services.  It will tell you phone numbers, websites, what times they are available and if there is a chat option.
https://www.childhelp.org/wp-content/uploads/2019/02/CPS-Phone-Numbers-2.1.19.pdf

Teen Dating Violence:  For more information on teen dating violence, refer to this fact sheet http://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/pdf/teen-dating-violence-factsheet-a.pdf

Resources using 2-1-1:  211 is a Nationwide service that assists with many different things.  They provide resources based on zip codes & state that assist with things such as housing, utility assistance, food, information after disasters such as hurricanes and flooding and more.  You can just dial 211 from any cell phone and be connected or you can visit http://www.211.org/  Enter your zip code or city in the appropriate field and select your state and then click SEARCH. 

My commitment to you is to not just actively listen, but to be nonjudgmental, patient, professional, kind and compassionate.  I understand that it can be very difficult for some people to trust and open up and I commend you for your bravery!  YOU ROCK!
Number of Ratings: 16
Number of Reviews: 14
Listens to Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Apr 10, 2019
Last Active over 6 months ago
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 244
Cheers 17,133
People Helped 47
Chats 198
Group Support Chats 12
Listener Group Chats 10
Forum Posts 193
Forum Upvotes 225
Categories
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Growth Path Timeline
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    Self Care Initiative
    Completed step number is 242, September 30th, 2019
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    Is Your Tank Full
    Completed step number is 241, September 30th, 2019
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    Simple Breathing Exercise
    Completed step number is 240, September 30th, 2019
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    Take a General Request
    Completed step number is 238, September 30th, 2019
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    Completed step number is 237, September 29th, 2019
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    Shout-Out
    Completed step number is 236, June 20th, 2019
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    Completed step number is 235, May 30th, 2019
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    Completed step number is 234, May 11th, 2019
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    Mindfulness: Loving Kindness Meditation(13:25)
    Completed step number is 233, May 11th, 2019

Feedback & Reviews
Highly astute, very helpful. Able to pinpoint the most relevant points of the issues you’ve been having
She is an amazing human being who is passionate about helping people. She listened to me all the way and was dedicated to help me with my problem. Thank you for being awesome
great person. felt like the right person to talk to
So helpful and really listened to me!! Gave me some really good ideas. Made sure I was respected and understood what I was trying to say. Would totally recommend.
She was amazing
Very Responsive and Upbeat Personality. Willing to find ways for you to help yourself!
She is so patient, kind and understanding. An amazing and thoughtful listener.
Professional. Non-judgemental. Asks the right questions. Overall, excellent.
Good listener and friendly
She helped so much and was very understanding
wonderful extremely caring
Good listener, nice to talk to
Listener was helpful and insightful, most of all respectful of my feelings
Loved it! Awesome chat!
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Questions Answered
How do I overcome my depression about my poor grades in school?
November 14th, 2020 9:53pm How can I take steps to start loving myself again?
April 16th, 2019 8:48am How can I volunteer and talk to elderly?
April 16th, 2019 8:53am How to tell your boyfriend or girlfriend you have depression?
April 23rd, 2019 6:42pm How do I remain focused on my job and not be distracted by petty resentments and jealousy?
September 30th, 2019 4:32am I have been laid off twice within the last year. I'm worried about how the job gaps look on my resume. Jobs that I'm qualified for aren't calling me back. Is my career doomed?
September 30th, 2019 4:26am Why did they pick me out of all people to bully?
September 30th, 2019 4:41am Is it still considered cutting if I just use a safety pin to scratch the surface and no blood?
September 30th, 2019 4:34am When will I be ready to better myself?
September 30th, 2019 4:49am I can't get over my ex after a year. What should I do?
September 30th, 2019 4:18am Why does my ex still block me when he's with his new girlfriend? I was the one that finished it and I'm OK with it
September 30th, 2019 4:54am I'm tired of my dad not working and seeing my mom work everyday of the week. Like he doesn't do anything to help around the house; all he does is watch tv and eat all day. What can I do ?
September 30th, 2019 4:45am My father hasn't worked in a decade and didn't care about providing for his family or talking to us. His interaction with us is limited to temper tantrums.How do I deal with the hopelessness?
September 30th, 2019 4:57am Is it good to have an energy funds available?
September 30th, 2019 4:22am How do I get enough motivation to lose weight?
November 14th, 2020 9:46pm How do you know if you have ADHD?
April 22nd, 2019 10:57pm How do I explain my diagnosis to my child, friends, and family?
November 14th, 2020 9:43pm How does someone be okay after realizing they have gone through a traumatic experience?
September 30th, 2019 4:15am How can I find others with the same rare condition that I have?
April 23rd, 2019 6:46pm Should you go back to someone who lied to you and cheated on you? Meaning in the talking/dating stages before becoming official. & in terms of lying about their past relations
September 30th, 2019 4:36am my ex said he wanted me back, I tried and it didn't work so we stopped talking. He's been seeing someone else but he messaged again to see me. Should I tell him to fuck off because of the new girl?
September 30th, 2019 4:51am my boyfriend is never really nice to me. He treats me like part of the furniture. But i have nobody but him. what should i do?
September 30th, 2019 4:29am What do people mean by alone time? How can I have meaningful alone time?
May 3rd, 2019 3:12am Why do I get so irritated at my mom when she tells me do things? It's like anytime she instructs me to do anything it bothers me and I feel like she just wants to nag at me.
November 14th, 2020 9:38pm I worry a lot for my daughter right now. Can you help me not worry so much about my daughter?
November 14th, 2020 9:26pm