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calmspirit |
Listener - Explorer 4

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4.5 star rating

My goal is to listen and not assume, understand and not judge,

because the most important things to know is empathy and kindness.

A little about me: I'm 26 years old currently, but an old soul in-depth,

I'm a fond writer & reader of poetry, I love spending time with family.

Also putting together a book of poems based on past, present, future.


I'm not a perfect listener, but I have my own fair share of life experiences-

that have definitely shaped me into the person I am today.

I listen to as many as I can, so replies may vary. I try and keep the balance.

Online = I'm not too occupied by requests and I am free to a few more at one time.

Busy = I am taking at least 3 requests+ and it's not recommended to take on too much.

Offline = I'm probably asleep, tired or I need a little break from the site.

I like to have 30-45 minute conversations, but of course, I'm open to scheduling longer talks with people.

if I don't answer your request, it's because I don't want to take on too much at any one time, like many on here.

taking on too many requests can lead to stress, and I want to be the best I can be in terms of listening skills.

Thank you for taking the time to read all of this. I hope to speak with you.



Number of Ratings: 63
Number of Reviews: 9
Listens to Over 18
Languages English, Swedish
Listener Since Jan 22, 2015
Last Active in last 6 months
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 228
Cheers 22,900
People Helped 139
Chats 354
Group Support Chats 5
Listener Group Chats 2
Forum Posts 22
Forum Upvotes 33
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Feedback & Reviews
Thank you for listening
Wonderful listener!
What an absolute angel. So incredibly kind, understanding and empathetic; I could not have asked for a better person to talk to. Such amazing words of wisdom and, although I had fear of being judged, I did not feel one bit of judgement. You have no idea how much you have helped me with your kindness. There should be more people like calmspirit in the world. Thank you so much for everything, I cannot thank you enough. Here's to inner strength and independence. X
Very good listener. Caring and understanding. A lovely person and very easy to talk to
A very good listener ! :)
Really kind and supportive
A beautiful caring listener who made me feel better after a recent event. This person is a kind hearted one something this world needs more off.
a lovely person who cheered my soul. thank you for caring x

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