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Number of ratings30 Number of reviews16 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish, Hindi, Kannada, Malayalam, Tamil, Telugu Listener sinceNov 30, 2021 Last activein last month GenderMale PathStep 70 People helped205 Chats1,033 Group support chats0 Listener group chats0 Forum posts13 Forum upvotes20
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Goodness is followed by goodness, 

Am as good as your are to me :)

Am bad in LISTENING TO relationship stress/ Break ups.. simply because i cannot comprehend

Am good at 6 languages

I mean it when i say i understand

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A Beautiful flower in midst of weeds
7 Cups Academy / by calviness
Last post
 October 18th, 2023
...See more We are all that beautiful bright flower standing out among the crowd, but that beauty is seen by very few, our family, friends, lovers, and enemies for sure :)  Yet, there are people out there who never get the chance to bloom, for whatever reasons. I believe that we need to take a moment and appreciate ourselves, it took millions of years for us to reach here and write this and for you to read from the other side of the world! We have not met, but I am writing this to acknowledge the beauty of your flower that is yet to bloom, that heart-warming smile, a tear of joy or just being next to what you love and being glad about it, that is the color of your love and endurance, that is the magnificent flower, that is the person in you. If you are unwell and struggling, step down and calm down, the world moves fast?!, we'll that's an illusion move at your own pace, we all have 24hrs irrespective of who we are,  so don't feel sorry for yourself, just look for a way ahead, we have to finish that 24hrs If you are having mental challenges, remember, that there are hospitals, if you cannot afford them, look out for grants and free treatment, and ask for help in forums, help might come today or 365 days later, but your request for help will come on the last day! so keep searching   If are you having a relationship stress including parents, think about it, and talk to us! see if it's toxic, take multiple opinions, and decide later whether you want to continue or move on! we have less than 50 years to deal with relationships etc, so don't worry too much just be true to the person you love rest will fall in place, if it doesn't, move on! And for the people who have faced the real wrath of poverty, hunger, war, crimes, murders, convicts, disease, hold on! our holdout your magnificent flower, your day will change,  am not a privileged guy but am glad and counting my blessings.. Thanks   
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Why should be learn more?
Motivation & Accountability / by calviness
Last post
 October 8th, 2023
...See more Every day we wake up to pick up our phone check the chats, then slowly move to reels then videos, get out of bed play music/news, check the mail and so many many things happen revolving around our phones and tv's But, have you wondered, if we might be consuming too little knowledge even while we are updated about the latest trends? manier times I've kept my phone aside and said am done! while I pick it up inadvertently a few minutes later, I think we have programmed ourselves to be entertained, 30-second scroll is their news now, but how was it useful? I have no idea, I cant think of keeping aside the phone and sitting relaxed, for I have found relaxation in the phone on ***! But I came across this quote" We read, not to know more, but to ignore less" I felt a jerk, i mean, I reflected on myself I felt i had been consuming good knowledge for sure like new places, food, culture but I've also been ignoring the fact that influencers tailor the situations to suit us. For the past couple of weeks, I've been consciously moving out to the doom scroll and trying to grab the hand of quality content, Stopping here and would like to ask : do you agree? or do you have a diff view?
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There is no equation for life
Newbie Hub / by calviness
Last post
 December 20th, 2021
...See more Do you agree that life is.not an equation, when you don't get what you wanted dont feel bad many wouldn't have got it too
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A compassionate listener
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Such a warm and sweet guy
Extremely understanding, gives valuable insights and advice and been so patient and kind with me. Thank you for the help!
Had great conversation thanku for listening
So empathetic and kind. Walked me through the hard time that I'm having. I am so appreciative!
Good listener and communicator
Very knowledgeable, very thoughtful
So far so good 👍
Calviness was empathetic, asked questions to understand what I'm going through more, and communicated very well.
Great listener. Easy-going conversation.
A great listener.
Great listener
He was very humble
Very kind and had great advice
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