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Relationship Stress / by coldPineapple
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 December 28th, 2022
...See more My boyfriend loves to skate. He skates 3-4x out of the week. I use to go with him until I went one day and he just stopped helping me. I don’t know how to skate so I expect you to be there to guide me. Not tell me what to do for 5 minutes and then leave me to go skate with your skate groups.so I stopped going. moving on….. he told me the day before that he is going to one of his skate friends birthday dinner. And then after that he was going to go to flint (an hour and some minutes away) to go to a new skate rink. I said ok can I come? He then says ,well you haven’t been going any other time now you want to go because ? I said I know what Nevermind and let him do his thing. we have each others iPhone location. In which he wanted to start doing that months ago. He never let me know he arrived to the dinner so I checked his location. He was there an hour later I checked it again and it says he’s in Roseville!!! At an apartment!!!!! He never told me he knew anybody in Roseville. soni called 10plus times and he didn’t answer. He called me back in 5 minutes and said “yeah what’s goin on” I said where tf are you and why you not answering my phone calls? He said he left his phone in the car. Why is your phone left in the car ? Where are you!!! He said he at birthday girl house! It’s 950pm!! What are you doing over there and why didn’t you tell me?! He said he was there because they was go car pool and he was waiting on her to get dressed to go to flint. I lost my mind!! Why didn’t you go from dinner to flint? Or why u didn’t tell me what was going on? I had to contact you ! That’s not fair . He said he had to go, so I said you got to get off the phone with me to go to her house? He said yeah cause he not tryna hear my mouth when he ain’t doing nothing. I was so *** I yelled and I hung up. He never called me or texted me back and there I was just waiting. He was over her house from 9pm to 11pm. Then he went to flint. Texted me “here” and that’s it. The skating in flint was from 11-2pm. He didn’t get to skating til 1230 something. Like what sense does that make! Then he drove her home and didn’t come in the house until 5:05AM! I don’t know wheat to do because I’m so *** like he use to tell me his every move! I felt like he was being inconsiderate of this relationship because I wouldn’t dare do anything like that! the next day he says I need to apologize & I didn’t because I wasn’t in the wrong. I don’t know if he cheated on me that night or anything. He left me room to believe otherwise. So we haven’t been talking going on a week now and we live together. He said it was a turn off that I acted like that but he gave me a legit reason to act like that. I wouldn’t be over no male house at that hour without my man knowing. And if she was getting dressed, why didn’t u wait in the car like a man in a relationship would do? am I wrong? Please I really need advice because I’m considering leaving this relationship if he doesn’t see my view. Because I can’t be with someone who makes those type of decisions especially if we plan on getting married and having a family. I don’t play those type of games 
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