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Listener - Connoisseur 4

Listener Rating
5.0 star rating

 - back from hiatus- 

important info: please don’t send me a personal request, they probably won’t be answered. please send me a short message introducing yourself and state what you would like to discuss during the session. please check if my chosen topics match with what you would like to discuss.''p0many thanks and cheers ❤️

Hello, i'm glad you found me on 7 cups of Tea!

I'd love to hear you out and try to support you in any way I can. Hit me up if you feel like talking!

You can start a chat with me if i'm online. Or just leave me a message when i'm offline - i'm also open to messaging back and forth.

I'm quite busy and spontaneous due my personal life and never know when i'm able to come online. It's currently impossible to schedule an appointment. 

I'm hard to catch sometimes, please don't be sad if i'm not able to answer a personal request or message instantly. 

If you're considering being my member or guest, please know these few things:

🔹 I prefer a time limit. it's usually 30 minutes, but it's up for discussion

🔹 please give me a brief summary what you wish to discuss with me when you contact me, i usually don't answer simple ''hellos'' (sorry)

🔹 I take chats in german, english or swiss german

also important to know:

🔹 I do not take any chats that involve serious crimes that are committed

🔹 I don't give advice

🔹 I am not a judge or jury - you'll have a completely judgement free and confidential chat with me

🔹 I reserve the right to refuse service to anyone who is rude, homophobic, disrespectful towards me or my time and anyone who drags the conversation on / has no interest in putting in effort 

🔹 I am not interested in dating, meeting in real life, or sharing my personal information


Number of Ratings: 90
Number of Reviews: 26
Listens to Over 18
Languages English, German
Listener Since Oct 30, 2015
Last Active in last 6 months
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 307
Cheers 68,185
People Helped 196
Chats 1,202
Group Support Chats 91
Listener Group Chats 6
Forum Posts 29
Forum Upvotes 16
Growth Path Timeline
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    Is Your Tank Full

Feedback & Reviews
Love the honesty
Incredible listener! Very very kind, understanding and wholehearted! I could not have asked for a better listener. Thank you very much!
She was really nice and awesome
I truly enjoyed this listener. Very upbeat and charming.
She is the genuine person who really cares, been there for me when I needed her. Listened our with such care and affection, there's still good humans left on this planet :) people like you have kept the hope alive..keep up the good work, and all the good luck for your life ♥♥
listens to you and makes you feel, you're cared.
A brilliant listener. Was very interested in what I had to say, gave me a safe space to unpack a crisis, and offered a lot of supportive comments without coming across as overbearing or advice-giving. I feel much better talking to them, and I look forward to updating them on how things go.
the best ,, thank you for everything
very helpful and empathic. great person to talk with :)
What a wonderful listener. Very helpful, empathetic, and personable listener. It felt like I was talking to a close friend.
Instant best friend. Honestly she is a refreshing breeze on a hot sunny day. Hilarious and totally gets me. I could talk nonstop with her for hours...and I will probably do that. lol peace
Awesome listener! Has made me feel better about what was getting me down! Thank you so much!
Nicest girl I have ever met.
She is the most incredible person I have ever met in my life. I have never been touched like that I my life. She is so sensitive and supportive and always says the right thing. I honestly don't know if I could go through what I'm going through with most her amazing support
great listener, thank you
This listener is wonderful. I wish she was around more for chat and would come to the chatrooms.
Very helpful and trustworthy.Thank you for being there for me when I needed the most!
she's great, very kind and helpful
You know what? This is a person. She speaks her mind as and when is necessary and it's good. It really does help. Great person, great conversationalist.
Awesome listener.
A very kind and compassionate listener.
A friend and a listener.
An amazing person who is just lovely to talk to and truly cares
She was really empathetic and kind. She helped me when I needed someone the most and owe everything to her. Thank you :)
She's a fantastic listene really made me feel better about everything. Thank you :)
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