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considerateEyes7978
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Why did he block me?
Relationship Stress / by considerateEyes7978
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 September 18th, 2022
...See more I’ve been friends with this guy for over a year now. There were times when things moved a little bit on to the romantic side which our friends noticed and even used to tease us together. But after the pandemic when everyone moved on with their lives, we didn’t used to talk as much anymore. But we always did keep in touch and even hung out a couple of times. If not anything else, I thought he was a genuine friend as we were always updated with what’s going on with our lives. This one time when I was mad at him and thought of cutting off contact with him, he messaged me repeatedly and made it clear that he cares about me and didn’t want to lose me. Recently I’ve got an offer letter from a university in the UK for my master’s so I will be moving there in a couple of days. When I told him, he asked me thrice to meet him before I leave. He said he will treat me. Last night, I texted him playing a prank that I’m leaving in a couple of hours and this is goodbye. And he was mad that why didn’t I meet even after he asked me to. He said “didn’t I ask you to meet once before you go? This is not right!” and then I told him I was joking and then we made plans to meet and he was talking to me about sending him gifts from the UK. But then the next night he just blocked me out of nowhere. From each and every social media..even Instagram where we don’t even follow each other. I texted him in a game we play asking why he did that and he told me that it wasn’t him, it’s a girl he gave his password to. Apparently she asked him to unfriend all girls because he asked her to do the same. But I checked his profile and it was just me who he blocked. I just feel like he is lying to me because why would he even block on WhatsApp. You can’t share the password to your WhatsApp. His last message was I know this is weird but it wasn’t intentional. It’s a long story I ll tell you some day. I just don’t understand what happened…I thought he was a genuine friend. Why would he even make plans with me if he was going to block the next day?
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