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considerateOak4739
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Relationship Stress / by considerateOak4739
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 April 30th
...See more Hello My current situation is dealing with my ex-girlfriend who broke up with me about 2 weeks ago. The break came from an argument about me treating her mom not so good as she treated me bad aswell. It felt so sudden but didn’t at the same time. After the breakup she had sent out a text saying she wasn’t giving up on us but believed she needed space to grow as people before we try again. We’re very religious and rely on Gods timing for everything. She had sent out another text a couple days after that explaining how she believed that for right now she believed we’re not right for eachother and how if it’s meant to be God will bring us back together. After that we decided that no contact was best, even against my wishes. After that we had a couple days of discussion about how when we got back together what we would change and how we would better eachother from this time of separation. She then a couple days later sent a text apologizing for some things she said during that week as she has some hormonal issues dealing with PCOS which makes her have bad mood swings. Then the true no contact went into affect and I didn’t hear from her for about a week then I reached out asking if she was going to a certain church service the same as I was. I had gone to the same one as her but realized how much of a mistake it was. It almost felt like she was avoiding me and didn’t want to be near me. I reached and asked if she knew when she would be ready to start a relationship again and she said when God says it’s time. I guess i’m asking if there’s a future between us and it truly is a time of separation between us. Any guidance on this situation would be greatly appreciated.
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