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Venting
General Support / by considerateTurtle5368
Last post
 July 22nd
...See more This is one of those days I feel lonely and miss my abusive ex. I still love that person. I won't reach out tho. After I broke up I had problems socializing, I couldn't get myself to talk to anyone, except my family for mundane talk. Which I also barely talk to them unless unnecessary. I started ghosting my friends because of my depression, not that they were good to me in the beginning anyways. My friends only come to me to rant and depend on me even tho I'm already struggling and no one helps me. Or they try to start a fight. It's all internet friendships. I don't feel like they truly care about me or is being genuine and at some point I felt tired to always be the one doing the work. I feel lonely tho. I feel like it's really hard for me to trust people now after being backstabbed by my cheating abusive narcissist ex. I get the necessary things done tho, like self care and chores. I've been in severe burn out for months so it's hard. Just recently got out of it. But I still have no motivation whatsoever and I feel myself ruminating. Which really sucks. I hope I can feel better soon and feel like myself again.
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Venting.
General Support / by considerateTurtle5368
Last post
 June 22nd
...See more I feel horrible. Going through a break up. Being discarded by an abusive narcissist. Losing my spark. I wish I can have it back. The worst part is I miss her. I really don't want to. My life has been on pause and I'm exhausted. So many problems I'm having at the same time.
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Venting.
General Support / by considerateTurtle5368
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 June 3rd
...See more I'm exhausted. Not the type of tiredness that sleep can fix. Even though I have severe insomnia and depression. I am going through a lot and I'm tired.
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Should I end my rs
Relationship Stress / by considerateTurtle5368
Last post
 January 1st, 2024
...See more I think my gf is becoming toxic, abusive, mean, and manipulative. I only realized recently that she has been trying to isolate me and I got manipulated into doing so. Recently she has shown multiple red flags, such as supporting cruelty in wars, being homophobic, looking down on poor people, and etc. She has shown racist and cult-ish behaviour too. I don't want to diagnose but she feels like a covert narcissist. I am scared, shocked beyond words, and idk what to do. Pls help.
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Rs and bad mental health.
Relationship Stress / by considerateTurtle5368
Last post
 December 5th, 2023
...See more My partner suffocates me and makes me anxious. Should I break up. I'm too tired and busy.
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ghosting.
Friendship Support / by considerateTurtle5368
Last post
 August 2nd, 2023
...See more So recently someone who ghosted me for months came back, showed no remorse, and said it was the best for her. I don't understand when people want to end a friendship do they need not to tell the other person and leave some closure? I kept reaching out to her because I was worried and it made me feel like a pathetic stupid person. I thought we're friends but turns out she never thought of me as one. It was so heartbreaking and disappointing to me especially the things she said that it was the best for her to GHOST and not communicate anything. I don't understand why people still do it to others when ghosting is emotional abuse and causes emotional damage. If you have problems or don't want to be in contact with someone, remove or BLOCK them. Not read and ignore it for MONTHS then lied about logging out. This behaviour is childish, selfish, and cowardly. I will never understand why someone justifies ghosting. It is not okay. Stop being such a child. It's so irritating and makes me upset and angry. I don't understand how I stayed friends with this kind of person and thought she was my best friend before. It's clear she's not able to think of anyone''s feelings except her own. So unbelievably cold blooded, lmao. Esp when we never fought but she ghosted. It makes people worry and think what they did wrong. Then she said she SAW everything I sent but decided to not reply. How much of an *** do you have to be to do that. To know someone is worried about you but decide you do not care about their feelings enough to give a short reply in a span of 3 months. I waited for her until I stopped waiting but i kept asking our mutuals if she was okay because she went through a break up and I was worried. Turns out my worries are for nothing. I also missed her but she never did. She threw and discard people like trash. I hope the people who she holds dear leaves her without saying anything too. She deserves the same treatment she's been giving others so she'll know how much it hurts. I will never forgive her. I love her as an ex-friend but I'm more angry and she never said sorry for anything she did. She doesn't deserve anything good. No wonder her ex left her. She deserves it for her lack of communication. I really dislike her now. I hope we never cross paths anymore in our lifetime. She doesn't deserve anything after hurting people that much.
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Rs problems.
Relationship Stress / by considerateTurtle5368
Last post
 August 1st, 2023
...See more So, recently my rs has took a toxic turn with my partner admitting that she doesn't want to try anymore in our rs. Everytime I bring up some concern she'd ask for a break up without fixing the problem. I guess I have reached my limit too. I start to want to give her what she wants. I also think that it is not fair to to me that she wants my time but can't spare time but when I talk about it she gets mad. She's not self conscious and can't hold herself accountable. The accusations are also getting bizzare. It makes me feel like I don't know who i am dating anymore.
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