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...See more Hello everyone! I am a newbie here, and would like to share my story. See if any of you have a similar situation or any advice. I had met a guy about a year an half ago online dating. We hit it off from the first chat, eventually met and hit off great. About a month into it he started acting distant and moody. Wouldn’t reach out as much as me, seemed a little more guarded. This continued for over the past year. We would talk, things are good, then he’d disappear. During the pandemic things were very hard on him. He was financially and mentally in a rough place and it took a toll on us. It’s been a very off and on type relationship. But the connection and chemistry between us is very strong. I’ve always been kind and a good friend to him. I was also trying my best to build his spirits up when he was or is down. It’s been two months since I’ve heard from him. I reached out to him twice both times hoping he’s ok and I’m here if he needs anything. Never got a response. I’ve seen his profile on the dating app is still active, but he hasn’t posted much on social media. I don’t know if it’s me he hates or something I did, but it really hurt me when he ghosted me. I don’t even think he cares what he did to be honest. But for some reason I can’t shake it off and wonder if it’s me or if I wasn’t good enough. I’m not reaching out to him anymore, his silence was a clear enough message. Thank you! ❤️

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