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Listener - Apprentice 9

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Hi there! I might be back from a few months of absence, with low capacity. I thought I wasn't getting messages anyway, but turns out that I just didn't get email notifications :-/ Going to check more frequently now.
I especially like to be there for people with issues surrounding gender and sexual minorities and alternative relationship styles. You can also talk to me if you'd like to get some difficult experiences off your chest without having to worry about making me uncomfortable. NB: I can't take on more members for long-term support with severe mental illness at this point, but if you have someone else for that in addition then we can discuss other things.
Some search terms: queer, LGBT, non-binary, non-monogamy, polyamory, relationship anarchy, BDSM, kinks

My style/principles as a listener:
- I really believe in Active Listening and will use as much as feels natural and appropriate to me
- Contrary to some of my reviews, I do not give advice. If you know more about what you should do after chatting with me, you've figured it out yourself!
- The only thing I might judge is intentionally harming others
- I will not ban or abandon you unless you continue with something that I asked you to stop because it's hurtful (never had to do this)
- I am here to support you and want to find out what works best for you, so any constructive feedback is very welcome

I take sex-related chats under the following conditions:
1. Mutual respect.
2. You talk about you, no personal questions about me.
3. If you're looking to get some kind of kick out of it, there are other sites for that.

Now if you've read and accepted all of this, you're welcome to send me a message, and I'll try and get back to you as soon as I can!



Number of Ratings: 19
Number of Reviews: 8
Listens to Over 18
Languages English, German, Norwegian
Listener Since Feb 3, 2016
Last Active over 6 months ago
Gender Non-Binary
Progress Path Step 93
Cheers 10,173
People Helped 19
Chats 167
Group Support Chats 11
Listener Group Chats 16
Forum Posts 144
Forum Upvotes 237
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Feedback & Reviews
amazing listener. really took the time to just let me go off and vent about things i didnt even know were bothering me.
Very caring listener.
I haven't felt this good in a good bit. Thank you it really helped.
Dankeschön 😘
Highly recommended. Listened to me for a few hours and provided helpful and non-judgmental input all along. Very insightful and knowledgeable, with a high level of perceptiveness as well. Overall, a really great listener!
A warm and compassionate person who not only listens but has a conversation with you. A true gem.
Solid advice for a relationship break up. Would definitely want them to listen to me again!
They have a great aptitude for just listening to your problem, and giving advice where it's needed. ^ ^ Would definitely chat with them again!
Badges & Awards
Jester of Smiles Jump Start Anxiety Depression Managing Emotions Traumatic Experiences Crisis Intervention Listener Oath Self Harm Sexual Abuse Alcohol & Drug Abuse Verified Listener Sleeping Well Graduate Master Love Bug Refresher Light Chat Voice Talker Loneliness Guide ACT Therapy Affirmative Reflection Chat & Text Listening Ace Active Listening Schizophrenia Boundaries Getting Unstuck Community 101 Loyal Friend Tick Tock Fellow Friend Five Steps Hang 10