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cuteOrange213
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Number of ratings41 Number of reviews36 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish, Malay Listener sinceJul 29, 2019 Last activein last 6 months GenderFemale PathStep 238 People helped135 Chats267 Group support chats222 Listener group chats449 Forum posts521 Forum upvotes773
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A LITTLE BIT ABOUT ME


Hello! I am Parvi or more commonly known as Orange, and I am 19 this year. I hope it's going great currently, but if it's not, my inbox is always open for a chat. In the past, I have gone through a couple of rough patches, but I have learned a lot about myself throughout the journey towards recovery. If you would like to chat with me, it is best if you could use my booking form here, https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeG03YJxglhAK1MxnQN-DPHZfeBdxcCT_8vWHn1M1Tpm5gO9A/viewform?usp=sf_link. Thank you!

Pronouns: she/her

MY LISTENING STYLE 
I enjoy asking questions. My listening style mainly revolves around open-ended questions. I love to help you figure out what you need by asking questions that would help. Sometimes we may not be a match, and that's completely okay. Feel free to just inform me if you feel that I may not be the best choice for you, and I would love to help look for another listener that could be a better match. During the chat, if you do feel that I may have mentioned something that isn't right, feel free to correct me on the spot!

Also, please do not ask me for my personal information or any advice as those are against the guidelines. If you continue to ask me these things, I may have to end the chat after 3 warnings. 

MY WEAKNESSES
As a person who prioritises quality over many other aspects, I think it's only fair for me to also address my weaknesses and how I am working on them. Firstly, I would like to address my response times. I do have quite an uncertain schedule, so I may disappear in the middle of a chat. I have also recently been facing many technical issues due to my unstable internet connection. On that note, I am trying to improve my response timings as well as I am working on my internet quality. If you feel I may have not responded for more than 48 hours, feel free to send me a second pm. I would also like to note that my status colour is a great indicator of my activity. It is usually on Orange, which means I am around Cups, but I am not taking any member chats. If you pm me while my status indicates I am busy, please do not expect a response immediately.

Another aspect I am currently working on is my reflection. I may not be very good at this and if you are looking for a listener with great reflection skills, I may not be the best choice. I am currently practising more of my reflection skills in hopes that one day I could reach the point where I could say I am great at it. 

MY ROLES
Group Support Mentor Leader

Safety Patroller

Listener Check-Ins PA

Peer Supporter

Listener Verifier

Doorkeeper

Translations Team Leader for the Malay Language

Support Team Teen Star for the Eating Disorder Sub-Community

Teen Community Star for the Eating Disorders Sub-Community

Chat Supporter

Community Moderator for Safety and Knowledge Sub Community 

Team Leader for the Teen Listeners' Daily Check-ins

Project Agent for the Teen Listeners Room


STATUS MEANING
Green - Available to chat with members/listeners

Orange - Busy doing some work here on 7 Cups

Red - Offline and not available to chat




Recent forum posts
New to the Eating Disorder sub-community in October 2021? Feel free to introduce yourself here!
Eating Disorder Support / by cuteOrange213
Last post
 January 9th, 2022
...See more Welcome to the Eating Disorder support community! We are so happy to have you. Please feel free to introduce yourself, ask questions, and join our taglist [https://www.7cups.com/forum/EatingDisorderSupport_54/EatingDisordersSupportCommunityTeam_435/EDSAutomatedTaglist_217614/] for community updates and notifications of new discussions, events, and weekly check-in posts. You can find a lot of useful information in this introduction post: https://www.7cups.com/forum/EatingDisorderSupport_54/WelcomesIntroductions_2045/AnIntroductiontotheEatingDisorderSupportCommunity_219381/ Hope you find here what you are looking for, support and encouragement are always available Come and share with us. Tell us about you. We want to listen to what you have to tell! Tagging new subs: @helloKiwi9557 @calmVase1738 @Cendol @SpitefulParadox @abbeybest2 @carefulBirch5684 @rationalDime2791 @quickwittedPlane7519 @conscientiousRaspberries6485 @umkaykay1 @overemotional04 @Juneberries83 @idkbihmn @glascowgrinn @Moonkitty1418 @SoyMilk922 @Feelingspaced @Krispykris @warmheartedEast5468 Parvi/Orange
Mid-way Evaluation Reminder for July 19
Group Leadership & Development / by cuteOrange213
Last post
 July 20th, 2021
...See more hey hey everyone🧡! Congratulations! You are halfway through the program. You are being tagged as you are halfway through the program and are required to submit a mid-way evaluation form so that we could track your progress. You can find the link to the form here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScgvoEwEiYpc97Wi4ju_vROcLyhq60qpRClJjfeaWJxe6wpgw/viewform]. Please comment here after you have filled it out(or feel free to drop in my pms, thank you!) Tagging: @Paprika001 @youcanthavearainbowwithoutrain @politeHoney5554 @KateDoskocilova @FallenStarss If you have already filled it in, feel free to ignore this post but do still let us know that you have filled it in! Feel free to reach out to any GLDD mentors if you have any questions. You can look them up here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupLeadershipDevelopment_206/InformationHub_2204/7CupsAcademyMentorsGroupLeadershipandDynamicsDevelopmentAvailabilityUpdates_246776/]. Here are the checklists for the listener track [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1Vj_GcVvl1ZTxZQJp721Gpopn2nm9HXTNUPMuUHES7d8/edit#heading=h.irz3bnelhgih] and member track [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1krWNx35AYiL4jW7WGRcTr_ffILR8Jli4CCjtp22MdrA/edit]. Thank you! Orange/Parvi
~ Teen Eating Disorder Support Room Opening Times! ~
Eating Disorder Support / by cuteOrange213
Last post
 July 7th, 2021
...See more Hello ED sub comm<3! It's Orange/Parvi here today to bring in some wonderful news. As many of you might know, the Eating Disorder Sub Community in general, and the Eating Disorder support room has been fairly inactive for the past few months. I have put a lot of thought into reopening the room again and here we are. During the times that the room is going to be opened, the room will always be monitored by one of our sub-community leaders. We will always be there to chat during the whole time and be available to answer all your questions. This post will be updated from time to time for new additions to the opening times, as well event updates if we have any. Room Opening Times : 6 pm to 7 pm ET on Tuesdays - session led by Stars (@whenitsdarklookforstars) 10.30 am to 11.00 am ET on Fridays - session led by Orange (@cuteOrange213) 6.30 pm to 7.30 pm ET on Wednesdays - session led by Chloe (@Chloe563) Eating Disorder Sub-Community Taglist =@24Help1 @2ndOf7 @adaptablePomegranate1115 @AddictedTealover98 @Aimee198 @Amicia @Ayodeji @azuladragon34 @berryMeringue22410 @Blessedboy @blueberry712 @BrightStarrySkies @BrokenMedic @bunniecore @calmSpace19 @CateGrace @Catlub @charmingSky1384 @ClimbingForever1 @CompassionCake @competentParadise6344 @cuddlyKiwi43 @dagaz13th @Dhai28 @Elizabeth2807 @elizabethunter @fairmindedCturtle1000 @fairmindedWater1140 @FallenStarss @FunkyFlamingo @gentleLand5245 @Goldcherry2113 @greenShip8274 @Happy900 @Hashib22 @Jenn7Cups @JoyfulUnicorn @Lintspace @LizzieR0717 @marmar26 @Mel @melancholyk @mildraindrops @Minghao1010 @mmklemm @MorgiePositive @Myself85 @OpheliacRose @parisayano @plantlover3 @PotatoSoup @rabbit911 @redLime9266 @resourcefulPond1641 @SammyLouise @SarcasticWoman2005 @sensitiveTree7818 @sereneoceanscene @Shackled @Shanna @SharpiePen @Smallbean0404 @SympatheticStrawberrySmoothie @talkswithariba @Tazzie @theheartproject @TheMadHatterWasHere @Traveller8 @turquoiseFriend2396 @understandingMoon3999 @verawolf @WWSF @youandmesohappily Eating Disorder Leaders Taglist = @competentParadise6344 @LoveLilly @Rhlexia520 @Tazzie @ASilentObsrver @whenitsdarklookforstars @listeningsarinn @Jenn7Cups @Dilemma1o100 updated on 14th June 2021 for new sessions (daily open chats couldn't be held due to some issues) updated on 6th July 2021 to remove a few inactive sessions
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Feedback & Reviews
She's really sweet and kind
a really smart, thoughtful and considerate listener!
She is great and helped me.
She’s kind and warm
really helpful... she really is
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Very kind and so humble
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Really good listener loved her
Very good listener and very caring
so far very nice! very efficient too :)
a really nice person made me feel loved
good listener loved the chat.
absolutley amazing, I have never felt myself feeling so vulnerable and able to come to my own conclusions with some small guidance along the way the way I could tonight. It was amazing feeling heard but also knowing I came to the conclusion myself. truly amazing
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Amazing listener! Asks great questions!
Was super helpful and very very nice
Very sweet, not condescending at all even with stuff that seems trivial. Def would recommend
Pretty awesome! gives sweet and motivational replies!
Good listener. Thank you
Listened well and was kind :)
Was a nice lovely chat ^^
A very good listener. She was able to give me a better insight.
She listens and has a good response time and balance of listening and talking
very very helpful and sweet! Made me feel so much less alone and safe to talk about anything!
He's a friendly listener
It feels like she is a professional at this
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he / she / they were very helpful and i felt a lot better after chatting
Amazing listener! Thank u
Really helpful and kind, as well as relatable and straightforward.
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he or she is a good listener
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