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cuteOrange213 |
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A LITTLE BIT ABOUT ME
Hello! I am Parvi or more commonly known as Orange, and I am 17 this year. I hope it's going great currently, but if it's not, my inbox is always open for a chat. In the past, I have gone through a couple of rough patches, but I have learned a lot about myself throughout the journey towards recovery. If you would like to chat with me, it is best if you could use my booking form here, https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeG03YJxglhAK1MxnQN-DPHZfeBdxcCT_8vWHn1M1Tpm5gO9A/viewform?usp=sf_link. Thank you!
Pronouns: she/her

MY LISTENING STYLE 
I enjoy asking questions. My listening style mainly revolves around open-ended questions. I love to help you figure out what you need by asking questions that would help. Sometimes we may not be a match, and that's completely okay. Feel free to just inform me if you feel that I may not be the best choice for you, and I would love to help look for another listener that could be a better match. During the chat, if you do feel that I may have mentioned something that isn't right, feel free to correct me on the spot!
Also, please do not ask me for my personal information or any advice as those are against the guidelines. If you continue to ask me these things, I may have to end the chat after 3 warnings. 

MY WEAKNESSES
As a person who prioritises quality over many other aspects, I think it's only fair for me to also address my weaknesses and how I am working on them. Firstly, I would like to address my response times. I do have quite an uncertain schedule, so I may disappear in the middle of a chat. I have also recently been facing many technical issues due to my unstable internet connection. On that note, I am trying to improve my response timings as well as I am working on my internet quality. If you feel I may have not responded for more than 48 hours, feel free to send me a second pm. I would also like to note that my status colour is a great indicator of my activity. It is usually on Orange, which means I am around Cups, but I am not taking any member chats. If you pm me while my status indicates I am busy, please do not expect a response immediately.
Another aspect I am currently working on is my reflection. I may not be very good at this and if you are looking for a listener with great reflection skills, I may not be the best choice. I am currently practising more of my reflections skills in hopes that one day I could reach the point where I could say I am great at it. 

MY ROLES 
Group Support/Engagement Teen Star Leader

Support Team Teen Star for the Eating Disorder Sub-Community

Teen Community Star for the Eating Disorders Sub-Community

Safety Patroller

Chat Supporter

Peer Supporter

Community Moderator for Safety and Knowledge Sub Community

Translations Team Leader for the Malay Language 

Team Leader for the Teen Listeners Daily Check-ins

Project Agent for the Teen Listeners Room

Listener Verifier

Doorkeeper

STATUS MEANING
Green - Available to chat with members/listeners

Orange - Busy doing some work here on 7 Cups

Red - Offline and not available to chat

CHAT TOPICS I AM COMFORTABLE TAKING
Depression, Eating Disorders, Anxiety, Bullying, Family Stress, Forgiveness, Getting Unstuck, Managing Emotions, Panic Attacks, Sexual Health, Student Life

CHAT TOPICS I AM NOT COMFORTABLE TAKING
Self Harm, Alcohol/ Drug Use, Chronic Pain, Disabilities

 
Number of Ratings: 37
Number of Reviews: 32
Listens to Teens
Languages English, Malay
Listener Since Jul 29, 2019
Last Active in last week
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 235
Cheers 57,342
People Helped 123
Chats 246
Group Support Chats 218
Listener Group Chats 443
Forum Posts 500
Forum Upvotes 715
Growth Path Timeline
Feedback & Reviews
really helpful... she really is
Amazing nice sweet kind loving
Very kind and so humble
so sweet and easy to talk to !
Really good listener loved her
Very good listener and very caring
so far very nice! very efficient too :)
a really nice person made me feel loved
good listener loved the chat.
absolutley amazing, I have never felt myself feeling so vulnerable and able to come to my own conclusions with some small guidance along the way the way I could tonight. It was amazing feeling heard but also knowing I came to the conclusion myself. truly amazing
really nice!!!!!!!
Very nice and helpful
Amazing listener! Asks great questions!
Was super helpful and very very nice
Very sweet, not condescending at all even with stuff that seems trivial. Def would recommend
Pretty awesome! gives sweet and motivational replies!
Good listener. Thank you
Listened well and was kind :)
Was a nice lovely chat ^^
A very good listener. She was able to give me a better insight.
She listens and has a good response time and balance of listening and talking
very very helpful and sweet! Made me feel so much less alone and safe to talk about anything!
He's a friendly listener
It feels like she is a professional at this
Awesome listener!
amazing listener, helps a lot
he / she / they were very helpful and i felt a lot better after chatting
Amazing listener! Thank u
Really helpful and kind, as well as relatable and straightforward.
Very Straightforward and helpful
Great. Really helps
he or she is a good listener
Badges & Awards
Magnet Peppermint Jester of Smiles Clerk of Bear Hugs Ellen Anxiety Eating Disorders Managing Emotions Panic Attacks Surviving Breakups Crisis Intervention Listener Oath Peer Support Cultural Diversity Verified Listener Chronic Pain Psychological First Aid Sleeping Well Graduate Master Love Bug Refresher Light Chat Tiny Chat Small Chat Chit Chat Big Chat Voice Talker Communicator Speaker Ray of Hope Shining Light Help Angel College Guide Loneliness Guide Test Anxiety Exercise Motivation Affirmative Listening Ace Listen on the Go Feedback Listener Verifier Team Teen Community Star People of Color Guide Group Mentor Leader ADHD OCD Boundaries Forgiveness Managing Bipolar Managing Finances Getting Unstuck Project Agent Cup Connect Support Team Teen Star Teen Chat Support 7Cups Guide 12 Steps Community 101 Strangers Unite Sparkler MedX Loyal Friend Tick Tock Fellow Friend NAMI Listener Mod Star Doorkeeper NAMI Oath Steadfast Soul I Meet & Greet Proudly Proactive I Proudly Proactive II Reconnection Hero I First Community First Chat First Post Five Steps High 5 Hang 10 Open Door Summer Events Safety Patrol Thankful Heart Gratitude Abound Eating Disorder Support Santa's Helper Familiar Face Peer Pro Peer Training 01 Peer Training 02 Peer Training 03 Peer Training 04 Peer Training 05 Peer Training 06 Peer Training 07 Peer Training 08 Peer Training 09 Peer Training 10 Peer Training 11 Peer Training 12 Winter Events Sharing Circle Community Builder Pineapple Personal Leadership 101 Personal Leadership 102 Becoming a Leader Leadership Principles Leadership Graduate Super Supporter Sharing Circle I Explorer LD Host