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My first fwb experience but is it more?
Relationship Stress / by determinedIdea4542
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 August 5th, 2021
...See more I met this guy at a friends house party in January this year He was sitting on the patio with a few people I thought he was cute, he had dark hair a thick beard..very manly lol. I also saw him looking at me and he turned to his friend and whispered “who is that?” I read his lips So I felt flattered but didn’t act on it. We kept meeting at house parties in the same house About 6 times and everytime we spoke, it was super chill and not awkward at all he never hit on me or got weird like some guys get. The 6th time we caught the same Uber back we exchanged numbers in the cab and for some reason we started talking about having soft hands lol so I took his hand and I said “my hand are very soft that’s what I’ve been told” and his turned out to be soft and we just held hands till his stop arrived(we were very drunk our conversation was also random lol) I felt like I was 16 again 😂 Leading up to the 7th house party It was one of the housemates bday and it was themed road men So the week leading up to the party we were texting about what to wear blah blah and at the party we got really drunk and started making out it was very comfortable and felt natural He was gentle with me. Then I went back to his and we slept together He dropped me back home on his way to work Then we slept together again the following week and then again for the third time We kept talking but the conversation did slow down then he texted me the fourth time and I wa son my period so I told him sorry haha I’m “out of order” and that’s was chill he said haha no worries Tbh I never texted him first and I still don’t I just am scared of being let down I’ve been in abusive relationships and now I’m letting myself experience life in my 20s I’m okay with what we have at this point So last Saturday I went out with my friends He texted me all day that day. He had plans with his friends too And at 12am he asked how the vibe was where I was at etc normal convo Then he said come over later if you’d like But I was on my period so I said “I’m on my period so unless you want to play jenga…” I expected him to say “haha no worries” just like last time But he said “I mean I do have jenga lol” so I was taken back by this My head was like wait so he just wants to hangout? I said okay see you then I went over and I told him this was weird and new to me he said nah we’re just chilling we can watch tv Then I asked him if he expected anything sexually from me he laughed and said no lol we’re just hanging out now And that’s what it was we spoke laughed, joked, watched community on Netflix, cuddled. I stayed the night and left in the morning He looked like he enjoyed spending time with me. But I went into this because in the beginning before anything happened between us we spoke about how we don’t want a relationship and how we’re focusing on our careers (it was a normal convo) Do you think last weekend meant he might be catching feelings?
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