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Relationship Stress / by dewbugs
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 January 12th, 2025
...See more Hi. I am looking for clarity/peace of mind and opinions. Because I simply can’t decide what is the best decision. I (26F) have a child with my ex. We dated ‘15-‘19 and I found out I was prego and he split. I begged for him to get his stuff together/job/want to move in together all the things for years and he didn’t. I also asked him to be my boyfriend after our child was born. long story short I moved on (sorta) and started seeing someone else. We’ve been together for 1.5 years and have some issues but not as many issues as my ex. But my ex has begged for me back for months, basically almost the full relationship. Anyways not until recently did he completely start doing what I asked him to do before and he told me he wants to prove it to me. is it possible that I’m conflicted with my feelings because of the fact that I share a child with him and that he is my ex? Because part of me wants to run away and go back to him but there’s a wall stopping me because of our history. and then I feel horrible because I’m in a relationship that just seems like a dead relationship but there isn’t anything wrong really with my partner currently. He’s a great person but sometimes I don’t think he’s my perfect fit/that he’s ready to develop a relationship with someone who has a kid.
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