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Relationship Stress / by diligentJar1891
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 April 27th, 2020
...See more Hi, so 3 weeks ago, I finally decided to move on from my ex boyfriend after 8 years he left me. We stayed friend even after break up, of course during those 8 years I try sooo many times to move on. But I cant, I keep holding to him even though he is full of lies. Well, he never really admit to anything, he always avoid things when I just want to discuss properly and he said he done that as 'respect to woman' fuck him. Fucking liar. I know he lied because his story doesnt make sense. Who on earth break up with your partner because your boy friend want to be with other girl??? Like his friend wanted to be with this other girl so his friend pretended to be my ex boyfriend, just to be with that girl. Dont you think how ridiculous it is? I was like what the fuck, but I suck it in cause I dont want fights. But honestly, it eats me up. Denial eats me up. He even first initially mention that it was a mistake to be with her (that 'other girl'). Then changed the story to 'his friend wanted to be with that D girl'. Damn my heart hurts so bad cause I got threatened, blackmailed 2 months before we broke up and I think my ex boyfriend was the one who threatened and blackmailed me :'( So 3 weeks ago, I finally had enough. Im tired, really tired. So we stop talking and I want nothing to do with him anymore. But I have things to let out to him, should I say it or what should i do? What should i do to handle this 'i need to talk to him about it' or 'he needs to know this'
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