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Unfaithful boyfriend
Relationship Stress / by dumbvictim
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 July 13th, 2025
...See more Hi everyone. I'm just here to share my frustrations about my boyfriend . We're in long distance relationship and we've been together for 2years and 5months but in our first year together I find out that he's cheating on me by using dating apps and I just found out last year on our 2nd year of our relationship . I just found out it late because I never imagined that he can do that type of things to me because I trust him so much even we never met yet . But since I love him I forgive him and just accept him again . I believe that he's going to change since he told me not to do it again . He even cried Infront of me like he's regretting everything he did and I believe that but he just did it again . Same mistakes. I even caught him using dummy accounts just to talk with those girls he met in dating apps. What's more worse is that it's not just simply flirting on chat they even do video calls, saying I love you , I miss you and even did something that isn't good.. you know what I mean because I see some videos and photos of those girls. They're sending him those stuffs . But I still forgive him since I'm idiot 😞 I'm hoping that he'll going to change but I think he will never change . He doesn't want to let me go but he can't treat me right To make story short. I'm still with him despite of everything . And he's totally changing now . Like he doesn't care about me anymore no more calls like before . It's just like he just talk and come to me whenever he wants to . Just few weeks ago I found out that he makes another *** account with different names. He said he deleted that account but I know he never did . I can still feel that he's doing something behind my back more . Whenever I pull away he's going to pull me back and try to get my trust again then after we get fine he's getting cold again. I don't know but it has lots of things he did that gives me a reason to leave him but I can't because I'm stupidly inlove with him . Now he didn't chat me and didn't call me and I don't know what he's doing. If he's busy with his side chicks again or what 😞 I don't know what to do 😭
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